@bondenavant: Replying to @Hungry_ghost some thoughts on how to shift perspective in this direction after reading ‘Survival of the Prettiest’ by anthropologist and psychologist Nancy Ectoff. #BeautyTok #skincaretiktok
BTW — the book is ‘Survival of the Prettiest’ by anthropologist and psychologist Nancy Ectoff 👍🏻
2024-10-30 06:59:44
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amymorgan111122 :
I totally agree! (And at the same time I’m looking at your amazing skin and wanting that lip color! 🥰)
2024-10-30 17:33:36
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Skincare-coffee-Botox :
Ugh l. I wish I could not care about Botox and skincare and all of that. But I do. I went to do what I can to age but maintain what I can and feel my best
2024-10-30 17:26:22
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Leah Adrienne :
Love this completely agree
2024-11-02 22:34:15
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user524148386880 :
1000000000000%
2024-11-13 05:05:30
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A R I E L 🦋🤍 :
I totally agree with this take! 💯
2024-11-12 00:51:34
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Kali Luppino :
Your hair is so pretty! What products do you use? What is your routine with it?
2025-02-09 16:27:02
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user4860102981374 :
True
2024-11-19 07:10:43
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JuliaCasella :
💡 💡💡💡💡
2024-10-30 06:57:35
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Johanna Marcia :
And the few women who are in power in whatever industry they are in tend to be the more conventionally attractive women.
2024-10-30 18:46:53
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user5495463330152 :
or they r essentially discarded. meanwhile, women do NOT like a teenage skin plumpness in males bc it is viewed as childlike & feminine vs ruggedly attractive & masculine. this aesthetics mismatch has
2024-10-31 06:53:17
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Amy Chang :
Studies have shown that beauty can impact your life in very real ways.. so to just tell someone to “stop caring about it” is not taking into account the real world consequences of that
2024-10-30 06:58:09
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belfonashelf :
The best thing that can happen is Botox and filler become trashy and corny like fake tans and big blocky eyebrows did and the trend dies. It’s going to become a flex to be able to move your face.
2024-10-30 19:34:42
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diddilybop :
you bring up such good points. you know what gets me? why do we have men who are in positions of power in their 60-80s, but women in the same age group are looked at as incompetent? it’s so unfair!
2024-10-30 07:14:38
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Caitlyn Storm :
I instantly like women with fine lines. It tells me she is self-aware, resilient and an ally. She’s not going to let a man tell her that her success only matters if she looks hot…
2024-11-17 11:32:51
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Ryan Chase :
I think people should try to stay young appearance wise if they’re able to. But once they start to look like a cat with procedures you have to accept that you’re getting older.
2024-10-30 13:25:32
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V :
looking forward to it
2024-10-30 11:05:00
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MIA ZANE 🤍 :
ATE THIS TAKE
2024-10-30 20:55:00
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LaNina :
Women need to own their power. Menopause will teach you this very quick. Looking forever young is a false promise. Taking care of ourselves and love to ourselves is the real strength. to each is own
2024-11-06 14:48:12
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Sazzuto :
From my experience, my fellow women tend to judge each other far more mercilessly than men do.
2024-11-01 03:43:35
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user827366388463 :
I do not believe anyyyy of this. Beauty comes from within. A confident happy woman is the most beautiful.
2024-10-31 21:19:45
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user5495463330152 :
the youth obsession is not about reproduction, it's about an attraction to plump full skin. this trait alone is the only thing that this society finds pretty. everyone, including all men, loses this
2024-10-31 06:50:02
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Kate Webb :
I was thinking how incredible it would be if women were allowed to look forward to getting older because it’s an outwardly visible sign of experience and wisdom.
2024-11-17 16:48:15
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cataleya.starx :
I’m sterilized since I was 18😂 everyone should do this. Its called self respect 🥰
2024-11-11 17:22:33
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Xiao Man :
What’s important to them is power. The women they usually sexualize the most have body fat levels too low to conceive. They want to dominate.
2024-11-04 15:36:12
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