He doesn’t even seem stable enough or mentally suited to be around the children
2024-11-01 21:27:17
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candi2x252 :
This is all coming from love. I’ve experienced a lot of this. You need to start healing-without him. You need court and/or mediation so u don’t have to fight with him constantly .
2024-11-02 04:32:58
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Anna Marie Diaz :
Protect your peace
2024-11-01 20:57:05
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Stacey Valenzuela :
Set those boundaries, stick to them. You & your kids deserve peace & happiness
2024-11-02 03:33:05
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Heather :
it sounds like he didn't want to be seen with you acting "as a family" which is crazy cause if anyone should not want to be seen together it should be you! You did what was right, he F'd it up.
2024-11-01 20:54:29
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Kels. :
He got what he wanted, you out of Charleston.. he has said too much shit for him to rock up dressed up in his hometown with you, he was worried about being seen..he is lying to someone about you still
2024-11-01 22:24:49
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Raquel🧜🏽♀️ :
been there, protect your girls & your peace..
2024-11-01 21:28:40
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Theresa :
I feel like subconsciously you’re still wanting your family and you’re trying to repair what HE did. Meanwhile he’s way too selfish to see that.
2024-11-01 21:17:21
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1357986420n :
Don’t be inviting him to ANYTHING. You need him to understand that he is not part of your family unit and he’s not going to break your family apart. He isn’t good father material so don’t give him tha
2024-11-01 21:47:20
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🦋•TheRealJaneDoe•🦋 :
Set the boundary that if he can’t be civil for special occasions than he can not come.
2024-11-03 04:35:53
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Christina Marie :
It sounds like he did not want you to go to Charles Town for some reason and fought on purpose … it makes me suspicious.
2024-11-01 21:41:45
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Ashley :
Hugs to you mama and the girls. Proud of you for trying to make the best of the remainder of the holiday honestly, I don’t think I could have done it but you continue to prove how strong you are 🫶🏼
2024-11-01 21:20:52
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user6763488428857 :
He has shown u who he is. Believe him!!!
2024-11-01 20:45:31
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HeatherAnne7240 :
Been there, did that. Many times. You have to elevate and rise above yourself. Where you get to a place that doesn’t feed the negative energy. It bounces off and dies off in alot of ways. You dont let
2024-11-02 02:11:03
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Boymom :
I’m 4 years in and still struggling.. hoping the best for you and your babies
2024-11-01 22:11:23
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Magical Moon :
You had to find out the hard way Multiple Times! I hope you learned this time around. Get a parenting plan through the courts and only text him about the kids. Period!
2024-11-01 22:53:57
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Ellen :
I’ve been there, it took my ex and I about 3 years to work it out and become friends. Give it time, emotions are still too high right now.
2024-11-01 21:35:10
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🌻Amber🌻 :
I'm so sorry!! Most narcissist always ruin the holidays! He is only mad with himself because he knows he royally screwed up! When you start dating he will get worse! You see his true colors
2024-11-01 21:17:17
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user5899221213721 :
I’m so sorry he ruined Halloween. You’re doing great mama!
2024-11-01 23:18:16
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Lolilith22 :
I’ll say this… stop trying to parent for him. Just like you get up and parent everyday and plan these events he can too. Not your responsibility
2024-11-01 22:11:38
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Jaynejae3 :
He is punishing you for not getting back together . The family holidays are triggering for him
2024-11-01 21:24:59
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hingle mccringleberry :
It sounds like he tried to ruin halloween and make you miserable as well as not wanting to appear on good terms with you - (matching costumes, pictures, trick or treating) What an actual monster. selfish selfish man.
2024-11-01 21:10:29
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ALI B :
I think the best way to parent with this guy is to parallel parent and just not try to cross paths. He’s not worth your time.
2024-11-01 21:02:56
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Carrie :
You did try ! F him
2024-11-01 20:50:13
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sofie Satx :
What an absolute gutter donkey. I hate him for you & those beautiful little girls
2024-11-02 04:57:29
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Kinder4904 :
He’s a narcissist.
2024-11-02 00:36:28
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Tee :
You really need to do your own thing and he does his own thing for everything moving forward.
2024-11-01 21:23:39
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heyashrose 🍉 :
you shouldn't want to include this man in your family events. he betrayed you.
2024-11-01 20:51:57
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Enrica66 :
that's on you to heal and been through same. I was so ill for 2 years after he left me for another.....please go through mediation as thos will continue to happen
2024-11-03 21:05:58
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Cassie :
This man didn’t even come for his daughter’s birth but you think he wants to do Halloween with y’all? Go find your girls a DADDY and leave this “father” behind where he belongs. This is gross.
2024-11-02 02:50:10
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Doctor..Watson :
You tried but you can’t force him. The kids just want happy whether that means one parent or 2. They feel that energy more than they’ll ever express to you. This from an adult who once was that child.
2024-11-01 23:42:21
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Katie Keck :
You have so much perseverance I really admire your strength and mothering! You and your daughters deserve better this guy does not deserve you guys ❤️
2024-11-01 22:31:54
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HeatherieMarie :
He will try to make your daughter's birthday about him. This is a man who you were crying and talking about how he might 🗡️you. Cut him off. He is not safe.
2024-11-01 22:26:31
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Jerseydvl67 :
I think your an awesome mom to your daughters don’t forget that and hey you can’t make people change all we can do is change ourselves or our environment who we choose to have and have not be in it
2024-11-01 22:04:39
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⚜️ChasGPT⚜️ :
You did your best to try to normalize everything with him for your kids. But he showed you who he truly is. Make your own memories with your girls. You doing good mama 🥰
2024-11-01 21:28:54
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Brittany :
Man, that is awful. He really does suck. I’m really sorry
2024-11-01 20:56:55
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Anna Marie Diaz :
In my opinion it was the most inappropriate time to bring these things up.. he really needs to get into therapy and do some self reflection/work.. totally unacceptable behavior
2024-11-01 20:54:55
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Lori_detroit ☀️🍁 :
Your newborn won’t know any bad things… it’s ok. Not everyone’s life is perfect. Families come in many many different types. It’s all ok!!! Xoxox
2024-11-01 22:40:14
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Suzanne :
Hugs… you and your girls deserve the best! Do not settle! You are amazingly strong!
2024-11-01 22:17:48
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お姫様 :
i am sorry to you 😔 I hope you and your kids have a better life 💞💞
2024-11-01 21:37:58
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idiot.sandwich :
good for you for keeping it together and still making the best of a bad situation. Keep your peace and keep your distance. That man just wants nothing more than to bring you down.
2024-11-01 21:25:08
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Sam :
He doesn’t want peace within your family and it’s sad- like imagine seeing your little girl cry in her costume because of yelling, I’d be heartbroken🥺. Thinking of you strong mama!
2024-11-01 21:19:28
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Anna Marie Diaz :
I will keep you and the girls in my prayers… I know that doesn’t take away your pain.. but I do know prayers work
2024-11-01 20:56:07
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user6763488428857 :
I’m so sorry! U have been robbed! U r too pretty to give him an ounce of attention 💕
2024-11-01 20:43:59
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siwilkerson :
I see and feel your pain. Please find a good counselor you can talk to and get these emotions out and they can give you the tools to handle this…don’t do it here.You need privacy.
2024-11-04 21:53:35
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Stephanie Marie :
luv u 2death but that conversation shouldn’t have been that long! you don’t want to dress up cool! you don’t want to go trick or treating bye! you want to talk about irrelevant stuff were leaving bye!
2024-11-04 04:03:35
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hoever :
The best you can do is take care of your self, use your energi to heal and create good memories for the children with you. Create the moments you want them to have, without him getting to control it.
2024-11-03 09:01:05
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nicoleteresa :
I can’t BELIEVE he has the audacity to say he don’t want to be seen with you because you talk about him online!! 😳😳😳😳
2024-11-03 00:35:43
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