@januarynotthemonth: ✨ The first woman was a people pleaser and a recovering caregiver who still took care of others more than herself. She was 38 and accepted less than she deserved. ✨ The second woman is 44, knows she deserves the world, and she is happier and healthier than she’s ever been. She established much needed boundaries from people who mean her harm or were unsupportive, jealous, or envious. Thankful for the journey. 🩷 #weightloss #living #beforeafter #columbiamd #howardcountymd #healedandwhole #healedandhappy #survivor #fitafter40 #40plusstyle #40plus #40plusfashion #40pluswomen #40plusfun #blackwomenrock #blackwomenofinstagram #blackdontcrack #blackdontcrack😍 #caraccidentsurvivor #aspirationpneumoniasurvivor #age44 #tonalworkouts #iliftweights #blackwomenlift #womenlifttoo #blackwomenwhoworkout #beforeandafter #aginggracefully #agingbackwards