@rebelwithoutadrink: There are exceptions, of course, but why is it so hard for is to talk to each other?? #adhd #adhdtiktok #adhdinwomen #neurodivergent
I’ve had neurotypical people assume I would do something backhanded after a falling out and I’m like that literally didn’t even cross my mind. I don’t really know how to be sneaky 😂
2024-11-06 11:16:33
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jujyfruitlady :
And they assume there's hidden meaning in what I say. 😑
2024-11-05 21:42:07
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jennifer thiele :
yes bc they never say what they mean. they are shady.
2024-11-05 20:26:30
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xichop :
is it just me or do they seem dumb
2024-11-06 07:35:08
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Mariana Va :
it’s exhausting. THEY ARE ALWAYS COMPETING & MEASURING YOU!
2024-11-06 12:14:03
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Chloe Lux :
Mass passive aggression has become neurotypical but it’s just a lie tbh.
2024-11-06 10:52:46
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urm0msm0m :
knowing when you're supposed to tell a lie. playing the hierarchy game at work. Guessing what reaction is expected out of you in time to eliminate void buffering
2024-11-06 00:42:24
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dreamscapecraft :
it feels like having a conversation with someone intent on not empathizing or understanding with you. they have to "win" discussions.
2024-11-05 19:57:31
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feninger :
I'm constantly being accused of trying to argue or have a competition when I'm just trying to explain or relate. or when I'm resting and get hit with "what's wrong" nothing.
2024-11-05 20:10:27
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Jade :
They love talking but it’s always service level conversations and boring
2024-11-07 22:07:48
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Emma :
They also tend to speak more directly from ego, so it’s like they’re talking “at you” instead of to you. Once you realize you can’t unsee it and it’s enraging.
2024-11-14 01:48:10
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Julezincognito :
it's exhausting
2024-11-05 20:59:04
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Devilz :
Ngl it’s so bad at this point I legit don’t even bother to communicate with anyone and when I have to it’s minimal at best!!!
2024-11-05 21:29:20
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KelseyHcHpLf :
Can’t tell you how many times I’ve uttered the sentence, “I prefer blunt communication.”
2024-11-06 05:20:38
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Raven :
yeah and some how I am always the problem
2024-11-05 20:51:51
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Dee :
I don't want to fit in with people who are not honest.
2024-11-05 20:18:14
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fallenjulia :
I read somewhere that people can misunderstand us on purpose because they don't like us
2025-01-26 22:09:48
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࿇᪥ 𝔓𝔯𝔦𝔫𝔠𝔢𝔰𝔰 ᪥࿇ :
Yes, and if you say exactly what you mean, they think you’re implying something. And start reading in between lines that aren’t there.😩
2024-11-06 10:07:30
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Mary Ennis652 :
toxic positivity is the worst! I was always told to smile when I was younger. At 59, they don't actually see me so...
2024-11-05 20:42:49
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cress :
not in a rude way but I'm really interested in this as a neurotypical the reason why we always imply and not really mean is for me social cues or sayings
2025-01-03 15:58:53
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antoinettemerchan :
I have found that if I say; sorry I don’t think i understand, what did you mean when you said….. and instead of me being the focus they are struggling to clarify.
2024-11-05 21:18:08
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Existentially yours :
They’re very peculiar. Strange way of being. Must exhausting to live like that.
2024-11-09 11:29:18
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:
You’d love life in the Netherlands. Very straightforward
2024-11-08 13:02:13
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missuniversetarot :
Its lack of empathy and lack of authenticity. As a neurodivergent you will at some realize most of your interactions were with people with narcissistic tendencies. The neurotypical that have work on themselves and have empathy and authenticity will actually understand you somewhat
2025-08-15 21:53:02
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Hidden Flame Studios 🎬🇮🇪🔥 :
Also, I'm so so sick of saying things and then them saying what they think I've actually said, to then constantly explain what I've said is not what they think I meant. It's unbelievably exhausting
2024-11-10 09:42:36
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