@thesunnahguy: Men and women are not the same. And that is actually a big blessing. We are not equals, but we are equally valuable. When we move away from our natural roles, then we negate and diminish the super power that makes us unique. A woman is not judged by her physical strength and mental toughness and ability to provide. And a man is not judged by his ability to give birth, be nurturing, caring and loving. There is always healthy and natural overlap. But there is surely no competition. The couples that understand this will last. The ones that don’t will compete and fall apart. We’re seeing it far too often today sadly.