@relationshipswithaly: Imagine if our conversations were this honest. The dance between anxious & avoidant is so real. But there are ways to heal your connection. Talk about what helps you feel SAFE and commit to implementing one thing for each of you this week. Disclaimer: IG is not therapy. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. This will not apply to everyone. #communication #therapy #therapistsofinstagram #couplestherapy #couple #dating #marriage #marriageadvice #mft #MentalHealth #wellness #Love #problemsolving #negotiation #conflictresolution #conflict
so much of what I'm seeing lately emphasizes I was saying secure statements while he was saying insecure ones and I'm proud of myself for the work I've done.
2024-11-08 12:30:57
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ama88100 :
Which one is which 😂
2024-11-10 00:47:05
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Elizabeth :
Wait which is the secure side?
2024-11-08 23:05:41
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JonTheHink :
this helps me understand myself better. I really appreciate that you shared this.
2024-11-08 01:59:28
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Cheltz V :
Is it weird that I can’t tell which is which?
2024-11-11 13:38:35
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♠️♦️♠️ :
had an ex like like, I was the secure attachment, I honestly tried everything. I gave him space and reassurance, words of affirmation, never formed him to do anything he didn't feel comfortable with
2024-11-11 17:40:36
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VolvoGuy940 :
Is it insecure attachment or just a reasonable response to what you’re getting?
2024-11-08 13:24:40
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Beau :
This literally probably would have saved my previous relationship lol. Live and learn
2024-11-20 16:55:35
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Moira Jo | Avoidant Attachment :
Omg If avoidants and anxious partners could communicate openly, everything would be less confusing, less painful, and way more secure.
2025-04-03 04:54:59
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ken the poet :
"I'm worried your reaction will be all about you" = nothing more "all about you" than refusing to share. reactions never ALL about reactor, are as much about relationship.
2024-12-09 16:34:32
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Jimmy Knowles :
I love this pillow talk
2024-11-07 22:16:37
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Ax Nasim :
i just don't want to anymore with avoidant attachments
2024-11-08 07:48:27
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DND :
Wow
2024-12-03 21:50:08
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Sheila Lee :
doing this on the pillows was so smart
2024-11-19 14:41:44
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transportwithkc :
Healthy communication✨
2025-01-27 15:21:29
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🐠 :
I had a similar conversation with my partner recently, it left me feeling so secure and loved
2024-11-10 08:32:46
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∆Mike∆ :
"imagine if your conversations where this honest" mine are, at least, from my side, most of the time when im this honest, even for the most open person to put efforts, it's intimidating for them, i've learned that being honest with your own feelings can feel so vulnerable for some people, i've learned to be patient, and it had give so much to my life
2025-01-04 19:25:23
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Memi🦁 💖🇩🇴 :
I just cried. Thanks for this
2024-12-13 04:17:00
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sandracheeks :
This made me cry. I wish both of us were able to see this in time.
2024-11-10 02:16:30
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ali :
can i have a transcription of this pls
2024-12-07 17:19:10
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donkeydonkdiaries :
When you ask me questions about the feelings that I’m sharing before making statements about them I feel more seen and understood 🖤
2024-12-18 18:35:59
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Rachel Glass :
If I’m secure then I am a very strange secure person
2024-11-26 02:56:07
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GeenaDavis27 :
This 100%
2024-11-17 23:54:06
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grace :
story of my life, a rollercoaster fr 😭
2024-11-16 23:53:14
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Mavie⁷ :
im both.
2024-11-10 18:06:24
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