@vanessaandxander: You may think it’s JUST a simple arm pet … But what you may not realize is that that bad initiation is also the root cause of so many bigger issues, like: ❌ Low libido ❌ Mismatched libidos ❌ Loss of attraction ❌ Infrequent secs ❌ Less non-secsual touch ❌ Resentment ❌ Arguments ❌ Disconnection It’s all too easy to avoid the issue entirely, and pray that bad initiation will miraculously stop one day. But we’re here to tell you…it won’t get better on its own. Waiting around for a magical fix is only going to drag you both into a dry spell you never wanted in the first place. We don’t want that for you, which is why we developed our course The Art of Initiation. 👋 So if you’re ready to say goodbye to these bad initiation tactics, head to our link in bio to check it out! #relationshiphumor #couplecomedy #inthebedroom #marriedlife #intimacy #bedroomhelp #funnycouple #vanessaandxander #vmtherapy #guide #forcouples #forpartners
They only seem to want to touch us when we are in the middle of chores
2024-11-11 00:27:53
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MK :
Skin crawling just by watching.
2024-11-11 00:00:37
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Melissa Faires :
Ugh. My husband. There’s absolutely NOTHING sexual about being pet like a damn cat.
2024-11-11 03:39:15
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Priscilla Zink :
on the flip side, if I show my husband the slightest affection he thinks I'm in the mood. He's just taught me to never touch him.
2024-11-12 00:49:28
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Mary bee :
God this comment section is making me feel so validated.
2024-11-11 02:11:54
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silliestsickgoose :
Men, please; set the mood with a clean house, dinner, make her laugh, wine, and then after cuddling up to her will help. The petting overstimulates
2024-11-20 17:40:13
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Dev_Hun :
Then I go straight into dissociation 🫥
2024-11-11 16:36:37
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Mazeedat Akanni :
I’m already annoyed and irritated for her 😂😂😂
2024-11-17 16:14:32
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Leeanna Brown :
Doing this while the kids are screaming and I’m making dinner makes me want to snap 😂
2024-11-11 14:56:55
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Emily 💙 :
My husband doesn’t do this but my skin crawled just watching it 😅
2024-11-08 20:19:10
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Fae🌱 :
Whhhhaaat you’re not instantly in the mood from that nice…arm brushing..?
2024-11-12 14:08:12
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An Ja :
Get aggression in my whole body only for watching
2024-11-18 18:39:51
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CzarLayla :
I FELT that face she made.
2024-11-10 23:52:50
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Madd :
the worse thing is we 110% are ignoring them and our facial expression shows how annoyed we are and they still press us.. ugh 🙄
2024-11-11 04:45:52
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Beocca :
Ugh! I hate it! It's not a turn on its a turn OFF!!
2024-11-10 23:45:44
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R :
It’s never when I’m just sitting there doing nothing it’s always when I’m in the middle of a task.
2024-11-11 12:28:17
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crisbonvehi :
I felt so uncomfortable
2024-11-24 11:10:10
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Cindy Carlton :
Omg ! I hated that . It made my skin crawl when my ex would do that when I was washing dishes . It felt like he wanted something from me when I was resenting him for not helping me at all!!
2024-11-11 10:36:28
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⭐️Housewife Extraordinaire ⭐️ :
Always when I’m in the middle of doing something ugh
2024-11-10 23:55:28
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Tennis and Crafting Girl :
Yup. Hubby does this. I’m like… stop petting me and maybe help?!? Do something to contribute?!
2024-11-12 12:53:37
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Lfdiggity🆘🇺🇸 :
Immediately no.
2024-11-10 21:59:52
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˙⋆✮Astral✮⋆˙ :
bruh i have adhd, when i'm cleaning i'm cleaning, i'm already overstimulated, don't wanna any touch 😂
2024-11-13 23:01:31
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Nickki :
Oh I hate the petting initiation.
2024-11-15 19:07:45
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Ann :
Joining in the chores and adding some playfulness into them would go so much further. Try this at home men!
2024-11-12 02:04:49
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