@the_interventionalists: Replying to @Cammestre i accidentally said “lesbians that dont wanna date men” but i meant bisexuals haha and thanks for the comment 💜 #wlw #lgbtq #lesbian #bisexual
I really appreciate you talking about this bc I've been in a lot of communities where anyone voicing these insecurities I had would be read as biphobia so I felt like I wasn't allowed to feel this
2024-11-09 15:49:58
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Cl :
omg I commented the "it hits right in the insecurities" on the prev vid! I want to thank you for talking about this so openly & with so much understanding for bi/pan sapphics too :) it all hurts
2024-11-13 10:01:42
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abzta :
You hit the nail on the head everytime 😭
2024-11-09 15:44:11
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Seana_369 :
This is exactly it! Thank you!
2024-11-09 17:46:47
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Stacy :
Thanks now I (a bi person) understand more why some lesbians have those insecurities. I wish everyone trying to date outside of the lesbian community that you find a genuine person 🫶
2025-05-04 03:43:36
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dustyboots :
Word
2024-11-11 19:50:15
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D k :
💯💯💯
2025-06-18 13:53:14
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CarysLRide :
The problem for me isn’t just the whole cheating thing. It’s also that the worst lesbophobia I’ve ever received in my life has been from bi women, who use being bi as an excuse
2024-11-15 11:35:42
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I think we need to ask why some lesbians have this insecurity. While women are told that men are the only valid option it doesn’t necessarily mean that every bisexual women has internalized that
2024-11-18 15:36:50
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enwomzyibuv :
it’s actually super common, lesbians (ESPECIALLY MASCS) are preyed on for being “securely at the bottom of the hierarchy (and therefore least cared for, most isolated and most insecure)”
2024-11-09 16:37:39
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crowhead :
at some point, some man has said to most of us something along the lines of since there is no penis, the sex isnt sex. it weirdly throws this nonsense directly back into your face. brutal.
2024-11-10 14:45:27
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user8827555338035 :
I always thought people were playing dumb when they said they didn't get why getting cheated on with a man as a lesbian would be worse because what's hard to get about it lol everyone understands why it might be worse for a trans woman to be left for a cis woman, same for fat/skinny, black/white, abled/disabled, when you're from a social minority you're always in a vulnerable position why the F would it be different with men/women
2024-12-19 02:32:50
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☀️ star ˙Ⱉ˙ :
honestly after meeting the first lesbian i got close to and having conversations with her, i knew i would never be able to date a bi woman again because i just couldn't relate to nonlesbians as deeply
2024-11-09 15:30:43
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Kayla :
There is nothing wrong with lesbians not wanting to date bisexuals. Some of us are tired of being treated as if we are never good enough regardless of how much we try to communicate & or give space.
2024-11-10 19:57:40
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alpha femme :
at the end of the day ppl dont need to date u bc of fear of "invalidation" dating is a exclusionary process and if ur whole identity is based on lesbians dating you or not to be ... i got news 4 u
2024-11-13 19:39:06
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tungtungflavoredvape :
THIS EXACTLY
2025-01-12 13:17:29
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icantswim :
I actually feel the opposite cause I can control the fact I’m not a man, I don’t compare myself to one. But if I get cheated on by another women, vis versa I’m not either pretty enough or emotionally.
2024-11-19 13:49:45
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cats :
youre making such an important point
2024-12-25 13:09:56
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