@zeezee25: disabled grief is not often talked about, but is sadly common ❤️‍🩹 if you’re chronically ill or you have developed the disability in life, then you’ll probably relate to the feeling of losing your old self the feeling of constantly trying to improve and get back to the person you were before the feeling of disappointment and frustration because you can’t do the things you used to do & your attempts to keep up only push you further into a flareup ✨ but know that if you can relate to this then you are not alone. So many people feel like this and it isn’t something we should feel embarrassed about It is okay to be struggling and not be the same person you were before health issues ❤️ it’s okay to change and regress and grow and shape yourself as you learn who you are, and it’s okay if that person looks different to the one you used to imagine I struggle with change a lot because I’m autistic, so the past few years have definitely been a massive challenge & adjustment - but I can confidently say that I feel like I’m slowly finding my feet, I have no idea where my health will be in the future 🫂 #disabledcommunity #chronicillness #chronicpain #chronicillnessawareness #disabled

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just_overth1nk1ng
The Over Thinker :
It's when you start making plans and suddenly it's like "Wait... I can't do that... I can't stand for that long."
2024-11-09 19:59:55
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kimberlyrhoades112
Kimberly Rhoades :
wow… 🥺 sending you hugs 🫂 I see you and feel you
2024-11-09 17:14:26
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coconutbeandog
Coconutbeandog :
THIS! My teen/childhood was spent surviving an abusive household. So once I got out and starting finally LIVING… I was hit with chronic illness. The life I survived for will never exist.
2024-11-11 13:56:27
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rea_shadow
Rea_Shadow :
Dosn't help when people judge you.... or you have good or great days! then your in so much pain and people think your faking everything. it's frustrating....
2024-11-09 17:13:07
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chr0nically.bee
Bee :
I think it’s so important to talk about the grief in being disabled…you’re not silly or weird for being upset with your disability or illness, no one is ever always positive
2024-11-09 22:28:21
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curiousitomorrow
Mar :
i jogged some groceries to the car and then had three seizures after and i was like oh i guess thats off the table
2024-11-16 08:05:07
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stuartjameschesby
Stuart James Chesby :
The fact that you’ve been able to adapt your life to your current circumstances shows a strength of character that’s rare at such a young age!
2024-11-09 19:25:01
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hannnn250
Hannah :
I'm due to start using a walking stick this week and I feel this grief because I'm having to accept this is me now. I've laughed it off to all my non chronic illness friends but jeez it sucks
2024-11-10 13:42:17
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bipolarbadass
nat :
this is so real. I used to do gymnastics and now walking around the house gives me a 120 bpm heart rate and gives me seizures if I overdo it
2024-11-15 02:00:11
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aliciathacker18
alicia :
my brother is disabled too, and watching you share the raw truths about living with disabilities gives so much hope. thank you for spreading awareness. you are a genuine superhero ❤️
2024-11-09 23:46:09
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lifesatwitchemma
life’s a twitch emma :
Sending many hugs your way 🫂 - disability grief and pride can and often coexist 🩷
2024-11-10 13:41:44
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jemarajane1550
Jemara Jane :
You are amazing. Sending so much love and hug🫂
2024-11-09 17:18:58
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little_man_adventures
Little Man Adventures :
1000% it’s hard to process losing your mobility is so scary sending you hugs and spoons 💜💜💜💜🥄🥄🥄🥄
2024-11-09 23:15:47
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wanderwithdonna
wanderwithdonna :
I am gaining my mobility back and it's so amazing. I am still quite limited but I can go on small hikes and it's a huge win!! If it's something you really want, don't give up. Baby steps!!!
2024-11-13 15:58:00
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sophia.ann.22
Sophia :
I think the fact that no one really understands unless it's happening or has happened to them either makes it feel even worse and so much more overwhelming
2024-11-09 22:04:50
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nataliebriggs24
Natalie Briggs :
sending hugs 🥰
2024-11-10 16:34:46
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bykatie.k
katie k 💘 :
i don’t know why different so my constant feeling of grief is what my life COULD have been like? if that makes sense 🫣
2024-11-10 12:26:09
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talynbaker
talyn :
thank you so much for sharing, my bsf has just been told she may never walk again due to cancer treatment and i can't imagine her pain, you are amazing 🩷🩷
2024-11-10 15:18:13
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tami__229
Tami 🎗️ :
Thank you for this. I've not accepted my disability yet and it seems like most people don't understand why I'm griefing. I can't hear the words 'at least you're still alive' anymore.
2024-11-11 18:10:56
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lunolaspam1345
Jayce :
I always see these when I’m feeling the emotions the vid is talking about I’m in hospital atm trying to figure out why my legs can’t weight bare and I’m having to come to terms with this might be a 1)
2024-11-09 18:54:32
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_amber_sings_06
_amber_sings_06 :
Fr..I got COVID in 2020 and got long COVID from it..I managed to develop coping mechanisms for each of the conditions I got from long COVID but I just got COVID again and I was worse off than last tim
2024-11-10 10:58:17
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courts.cancer.journey
courts.cancer.journey :
I grieve it every day aswell sweet. ❤️
2024-11-11 01:17:16
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bellasalsberry
bells✨🐝 :
The grief is so tough, but you are so strong! Not a lot of people talk about how you have to rewire your brain with chronic illness.
2024-11-21 13:41:40
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ella.b.crafting
Ella Brooks :
I was a gymnast too 😞
2024-12-02 21:37:34
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ajmarie09
ajmarie09 :
Sending you hugs love! I’m so sorry but don’t forget that you are so worth it on your hood and bad days! No matter how slow the process can be you will make it! 🥺🙏
2024-11-09 18:44:59
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