@expatriarch: Replying to @mccoast #stitch with @nktvpaa Not only were @Whatever She Wants Podcast not encouraging women to accept bad treatment from men, it was actually an honest and self-aware conversation about the abusive behaviors we overlook. Rather than talk about that, how we have conditioned generations of women to not only expect this behavior from men, but have normalized it to where genuine kindness and compassion are treated with mistrust, we once again ignore the topic of men's bad behavior, ignore women's voices and interpret it as the exact opposite because it's far more important to shame women because men's feelings got hurt. Proving the point again that nice men only want to be nice part time. #toxicmasculinity #misogyny #niceguy #patriarchy #positivemasculinity #Relationship #datingadvice #niceguys #whatevershewantspodcast #relationships #abusiverelationship #gaslighting #narcissisticabuserecovery
That’s me in the podcast. I can’t thank you enough for this - I hope both sides of your pillow are always cool 🤍🤍
2024-11-12 14:33:21
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Victoria Thorpe Artist :
It’s a trauma response, I went through this after my abusive ex and I’ve been learning to accept kindness. When you’re used to emotional neglect it feels normal. I just met a new male friend and he seems very nice but I’ve realised you have to wait a bit and see if it’s consistent and make sure he’s not trying to get me to like him in a romantic way as I’ve had this happen before many times. Consistency is important and you are right the niceness needs to be a 24/7 thing not just because they want something!
2024-11-11 13:01:43
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alexnayla226 :
It's a cycle I was in for my whole life. I don't date anymore because of this... it's so sad!
2024-11-25 03:05:58
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Katy :
In my late 30s I'm 4 years into my very first healthy relationship (after a number of absolutely terrible and downright abusive ones) and I can honestly say even now, a marriage and two kids later,..
2024-11-12 09:56:09
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DemiTFlynn :
i understand that but if its really about "theyre use to" why do they say "its boring??" i would never say "its boring" i would say "iam so use to" bc if they say"its boring" theyrenot interessted in
2024-11-13 06:56:05
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Whatever She Wants Podcast :
Thank you for this 🥰
2024-11-12 03:24:57
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Fieldofberries :
I had a good boss after a truly horrible boss. I read into every email from good boss trying to find the dig or attack. It took me a yr to realize I wasn’t going to be treated like 💩
2024-11-15 16:23:18
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Lisa | StrongerThanBefore.ca ❤ :
You nailed it.
2024-11-11 13:59:14
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Serafina :
My current man is the only man I have been with that displays genuine niceness. I'm now 36. I even had abusive father. Also saw My Mother get into abusive relationsips alot so it took me 1
2024-11-21 08:53:50
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ezzynailer :
I still struggle with accepting my husband who treats me like a queen and his genuine love for me. I'm so grateful for him ♥️
2024-11-12 07:00:55
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Tielle :
It’s been 6 months of consistent good behavior and treating me well but I’m still waiting for the other shoe to drop. My last relationship took 6yrs b4 he started treating me like 💩 so 🤷🏻♀️
2024-11-15 00:14:53
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Tay's #1 fanboy (Onni) :
I was at a bar one time giving out drinks and every guy just took it and thanked me. Then two girls came up to me and asked if they could get one too if they danced with me. That really broke my heart
2024-11-13 00:27:45
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nicolente (tofana's version) :
10/10, no notes 🎯 Thank you for this 👏👏
2024-11-12 12:13:14
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hope7🎭🌈 :
very well explained
2024-11-16 16:59:20
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Rika_839 :
I've missed you in my FYP, I had to switch to the "following" section and here you are
2024-11-16 13:19:47
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Hannah :
This is incredible
2024-11-13 01:06:11
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croissantsandcrazies :
When I met my spouse, & I felt so safe comfy, & supported, but NOT love bombed, I wondered if I was impressed or if he was doing the bare minimum. Looking back, love bombing exes did the bare minimum
2024-11-13 13:54:13
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sevie_the_author :
Very well said
2024-11-15 09:06:19
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Vi_Vintage_Gal :
Exactly!!! 👏👏👏
2024-11-13 07:24:29
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IsabellasMom13 :
Amen it is like a breath of fresh air to hear. Thank you!
2024-11-24 23:20:35
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HellPuma40 :
It took me about 4 years before I was able to fully accept my fiance's kindness and understanding. He was so patient with me.
2024-11-11 16:05:13
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Josie Rose 🇵🇸🏳️🌈 :
When I met my partner I kept telling him to “stop giving me lines” when he’d say something really nice and he’d look really confused. Now I realize he actually thinks those nice things.
2024-11-16 13:21:40
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categoricallykate :
we need so, so, SO many more men like you in this world 🥹✨
2024-11-13 03:57:52
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Nathan Banker :
I appreciate you so much. thank you
2024-11-20 12:08:30
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Anria Minnaar :
I told a colleague that a patient was kind and I was so use to patients being rude that I don’t know how to behave around the kind patient.
2024-11-17 23:18:34
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