Feeling misunderstood is a primary meltdown trigger, easily fatigued when person is pushing back for the sake of not wanting to ‘lose’ instead of joining an effort for mutual understanding.
2024-11-12 20:25:28
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🅡🅐🅒🅗🅔🅛 :
Add in my Autism and intense need for accuracy/facts, and we have a full blown debate 💁🏻♀️
2024-11-12 19:40:13
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Scary Eyes :
Dang I never even realized that’s why I argue. I was usually never worried about being right. No one ever believed that though.
2024-11-12 19:06:48
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kody_bac :
what’s odd is i HATE arguing with a passion, or literally any disagreement.
2024-11-13 01:51:34
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Village Herbalist :
Any suggestions to help people ramp down from this, without a blow out? Saying calm down, or really much of anything usual doesn't help.
2024-11-12 17:44:07
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Matthew :
Man I love your content, thank you for posting things like this to help people with adhd &/or autism out!
2024-11-12 15:59:01
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lori__1979 :
Your videos help me understand myself so much better! DX w/ ADHd 2 yrs ago at 43.
2024-12-08 14:11:18
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MelmoBaggins :
I've never felt so seen
2024-11-24 16:07:42
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Scuff :
Man I'm researching so many things from your page, and what I'm struggling with rn and what I'm ab to go talk to my new Therapist ab is whether I'm likely ADHD, Austistic, or both. I relate to both sides but somehow they're contradicting traits? It's so jarring
2024-11-20 18:05:06
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savvylilstar :
Why you just full blown attack me in public like that? 😅
2024-11-18 11:23:19
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Private :
When you say checking with other adhd-ers do you mean the person with adhd should do that or their partners to understand?
2024-11-12 16:19:52
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Six • #1 Polnareff Fan :
theres a mic on tik tok shop that has like a fluffier cover and it seems to soak up background noise. i dont know, may be worth a look. hope you find what youre looking for!
2024-11-13 01:22:20
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👽 ᖇᗩᗪᗪIᗴ ᗪᗩᗪᗪIᗴ 🏳️🌈 :
I literally just recorded a video talking about this and how ADHD affects our romantic relationships, especially. The struggle is real.
2024-11-13 16:03:02
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StoneRose :
This makes so much sense. It's why I'm a loner. Even with my sister - we seem to both be this way. Thank you for putting words to the feelings!
2024-11-12 18:00:19
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Christine Auman :
Thank you for this explanation. 🙂
2024-11-13 03:11:46
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Emmy :
Blind spot around the possibility I’m wrong. And blind spot around their emotional experience of being wrong.
2024-11-12 20:22:36
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Emmy :
Approaching like I’m writing an essay and editing your essay. Totally value neutral on my end.
2024-11-12 20:22:04
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Emmy :
Processing delay and bottom up thinking often leaves me deeply processing early stuff and getting stuck on individual words, thoughts they shared.
2024-11-12 20:24:17
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spowell68 :
It’s so hard. My husband always wants to argue about everything! Keeps me upset. 😢
2024-11-12 16:20:00
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Brian :
Thank you like omfg thank you
2024-11-14 03:51:16
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hopie :
:D
2024-11-14 09:05:33
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Lindsay Gallant :
Does this only apply to adhd , not autism?
2024-11-16 05:31:34
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Mr Percy :
As a creative, just clip the mic to your shirt. No need to hold it.
2024-11-26 16:06:14
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JK Clark :
I have to remind myself of this constantly, because it can be exhausting. On my part and on the part of others. It’s important to be able to let things go.
2024-11-12 20:26:14
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