drjondabach
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Theeonlymee :
20 years in, it doesn’t go away 😂
2024-11-13 15:26:07
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🖤💛🐝 Bee 🐝💛🖤 :
Or a trauma response of being in an abusive relationship….
2024-11-13 17:46:41
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aprilrain80 :
But dont lie, thats the key
2024-11-13 19:23:45
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SamanFeesh :
No, it never stops. They just keep asking anyway. It’s exhausting after a while. Makes me constantly second guess myself and my feelings/expressions, what did I do, etc etc
2024-11-13 19:13:34
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GRiM :
Until you answer them an they don’t believe you now they’re upset cause they think you’re lying lol
2024-11-13 19:20:56
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Stopyurbehind :
A guy I’m talking to asked for reassurance today and I gave it to him. He thanked me for offering reassurance. It’s simple.
2024-11-13 22:39:34
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Destiny :
After so much assurance they need to do some work and try to heal themselves
2024-11-13 18:19:32
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Cici :
It’s not just from say childhood! The trauma can come from being an adult. I know mine came from my horrific marriage.
2024-11-13 17:16:04
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Cindy Ramirez :
My husband didn't understand why I would ask him constantly these types of questions. I was in an abusive marriage for22yrs. My hubby now gets it..he loves me
2024-11-13 22:23:18
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Carrie Coleman :
My boyfriend asks all the time and I’m never annoyed I just hold him and tell him it’s okay to always ask me and I will always tell him
2024-11-13 17:58:41
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Michael Franco :
I just turned 39 and still struggle with this because i grew up in an unstable very emotionally traumatizing environment
2024-11-14 01:27:44
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Frederick :
What I can hate is when I can tell that they actually ARE upset, and they keep insisting they aren't. Meanwhile, they're being short with me and not really responsive to communication
2024-11-13 22:04:02
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donnamariabradley :
Yes reassurance helps them to heal
2024-11-14 23:29:40
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NunyaBusiness :
Huh?.. I had a great upbringing but I ask my partner constantly if he's okay. I like to hear from them they're happy.
2024-11-15 08:03:38
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TheLadyVanya🧝🏻♀️🌿 :
It took about 5-6 years into my marriage to realize when my husband was in fact saying he was okay- he was okay.
2024-11-14 11:33:39
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Zach :
Yep I’m 33 and I still do this
2024-11-13 19:08:24
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Oh_Hey_Michelle :
Anxious attachment is real
2024-11-13 20:22:49
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NatalieB🌺 :
Yes indeed this use to be me but God
2024-11-13 16:47:56
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ashleigh_ava :
Therapy would be a healthier choice for both people in this situation.
2024-11-15 12:14:18
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Kristina Smallhorn :
I’ve been married for 25 years and my husband has never stopped. It moments of stress for him he does it 29 times a day. I’m used to it.
2024-11-13 16:56:24
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Tam :
makes me lose my effin mind when I'm asked that all the time.
2024-11-17 18:28:16
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TriforceTrihard :
what about the person being asked? how do you think they feel? my partner asks all the time if we're OK and good, when there is nothing bad or wrong going on. and makes the person being asked feel bad
2024-11-14 21:37:38
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SophytheMage :
My bf have this problem. He grow up in a bad house, parents always scream, especially his mom. So everytime I am quiet, he ask me. Or say "no angy". I always answer to them, so he can relax
2024-11-14 07:22:59
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