@buildingbri: You actually CAN shift from anxious attachment to secure - but it requires your devotion to the healing work. ‼️ where are you getting tripped up with healing your aniexty while dating? Lmk in the comments🫶 #datingadvice #datingtips #datingadviceforwomen #datingtipsforwomen #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #anxiousgirl #anxiousdating #datinganxiety #healinganxiousattachment
This is sooo important! The rhetoric of “when you find the right person you won’t be anxious” is so dangerous. The anxiety is within yourself not caused by another person.
2024-12-18 17:56:04
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emma :
But where is the line between me overthinking and him ACTUALLY treating me wrong bc i cant tell the difference sometimes
2024-11-21 18:35:59
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Marcibeaucoup 🇨🇦 :
This is completely ruining my life
2024-11-18 23:05:50
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⚡️Joannie⚡️ :
I am learning how much of an anxious attachment/ codependent partner I am recently.. I feel crazy and can’t get my mind off of anything negative 😭😭
2024-11-17 06:37:03
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Chantal Lesley :
Nope. My anxious attachment doesn’t tell me I need the perfect partner, it tells me I need to BE the perfect partner.
2024-11-16 23:46:47
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Katalyn Dean :
I’ve never been so seen/heard in my life! I have a wonderful man but I still stay anxious constantly!! He’s busy I’m busy & that’s ok & I spend a lot of my time acting “cool” but mentally freaking out
2024-11-18 23:03:26
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Jenny :
I am SO anxiously attached.... 😞 I struggle so much.
2024-11-18 14:49:37
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april 🌟 :
i tried being secure once and then all my anxieties and fears ended up coming true 🙂 so now what
2024-11-25 23:39:16
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Health with Abs :
I think I’ve gotten soo much better then BOOM it all explodes at once 😞
2024-11-26 15:32:42
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Ruveena Rossitto :
Needed this today
2024-11-16 02:18:37
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Perfectly_mended :
Secure!!!!!! Also recovering disorganized attachment. It’s taken three years and lots of heart ache. Finally starting to date again and don’t feel anxiety. It’s a really powerful feeling
2024-11-15 21:46:24
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user9911922420398 :
Sometimes the anxiety is not about the other person…but a trauma response. Even with a secure person anxiety will do, what anxiety does, and that’s protect you (not in the best way) lol
2025-01-07 05:11:32
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Liz :
It’s ironic, I was overthinking this whole day and the first video I see is this, I really needed it. Ty 🫶🏻
2024-11-16 20:16:43
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Morgana Val :
The way I didn’t know you could work on anxious attachment while *not* dating and now I know why I feel so much better prepared for dating now ☺️
2025-01-28 11:55:25
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bawlincolin :
i couldn’t see this in my girl and i lost her to her
2024-11-18 15:56:46
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2scwlnh35g47clji :
Why do I always assume someone is lying? Even though I’ve never caught him in a lie… well maybe once or twice in the beginning, years ago. But that’s a long story. Since then, as skeptical as I am I
2024-11-18 14:47:19
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maryam :
i’m getting better at detaching and finding ways to fulfil myself rather than fixate on the other person, but i have trouble with communicating when something sets off my anxiety in the talking/dating stage in a secure way. i just match their energy and in extreme cases, stop speaking to them all together to avoid being perceived as needy. do you have any tips on how to deal with this? i’m sorry i know it’s a little niche 🥹
2024-11-17 22:28:43
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Nikpik95🌷 :
Thanks Bri I needed to hear this before i crashed out lol
2024-11-17 05:00:33
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Shay MacGregor🇵🇸 :
starting to suspect that im not actually anxiously attached and im just constantly picking narcissists and avoidants that dont comprehend that you have to do the things you dont want to or that scare
2024-12-26 05:41:41
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summerxxnicole :
Read the book ‘Attached’ & it shifted my perspective in dating SO much. Used to be a typical anxious attached girly & now a happy secure girly❤️Highly recommend!
2024-12-19 05:07:41
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Kaitlyn.lewi :
Yep definitely anxious attached. If they don’t respond I get nervous he doesn’t like me or for some reason isn’t interested. Especially if I see them online but they haven’t responded to me.
2024-12-15 16:20:22
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✨ANNAFOLLOWSPODS✨ :
Ok but how to do this when you’re already attached to someone? Can’t be in a relationship but also don’t want to stop talking to them too
2024-11-16 05:51:42
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arsyn13 :
fyp be fyp-ing
2024-11-30 04:34:54
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LeeLee54 :
Micro healing moments. 🔑
2024-12-11 04:14:05
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arefehrad :
I struggled with anxiety and anxious attachment. I asked him if he thinks I'm too much and whether he still interested seeing me.
2024-11-16 15:49:13
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