@coach.ryan0: When the avoidant jumps into a new relationship after discarding you, and goes ALL in with the new person #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #insecureattachment #attachmentstyle #emotionallyunavailaible #breakup #discard #discarded #divorce #heartbroken #Relationship #dating #situationship #relationshipcoach
i was the new person and he treated me perfectly up until he just out of the blue broke up with me. the new person isn’t safe either. avoidants don’t change if they aren’t self aware.
2024-11-18 16:44:41
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Pablo’s.17 :
Just move on. Learn to detect them (they use love bombing) and leave them enjoy their new relationship until they fail again and never leave them return.
2024-11-18 15:31:53
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Bori :
REGARDLESS IT STILL WRONG!!!!!!!!
2025-11-12 13:24:59
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Milanie dream :
Perfect timing
2025-09-23 23:28:58
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John22875204 :
I was the new person but was available and then she was gone so I would say it’s just the new person’s turn and they will also be discarded
2024-11-18 15:41:24
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Ridah lakay.com :
Over a joke i made
2024-11-18 15:39:09
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Natalie Elaina 🎀🫧✨️ :
my avoidant ex dated me for 9 months, made me feel like I was someone special, just to find out nobody in his personal life knew about me and I was a secret... but the new gf is being shown off...
2024-11-18 18:23:43
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unfab8906 :
And engaged with in 3 month after our break up 😭
2024-11-18 22:49:00
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Bryan :
Still doesn’t make it feel any better being tossed aside when you truly love them and want them to be healed so it could be a healthy relationship
2024-11-18 16:47:42
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SpeechingBeautySLP :
I love him so much. I just want him to heal and I know I’ll love him and want him no matter what but he just pushes me away . I just want him to see I’ll never give up on us and he’s okay
2024-11-18 19:42:20
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SofyZ :
Was I so easy to forget? 💔
2024-11-18 15:41:19
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Tilac21 :
That makes so much sense. Thank you!
2024-11-18 16:49:25
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Billy_Batson91 :
phantom ex
2024-11-18 15:32:55
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Lee Birmingham 👋😃👋 :
Glad I was her lesson so her next dude hopefully never hurts how I do 🙂
2024-11-18 23:36:38
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Rebellious Dreamer :
How can someone spend hours with another person being surface level? I guess as an introvert who hates small talk, the thought of that is my worst nightmare… I’d rather be alone than waste time with
2024-11-19 06:40:19
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Marce Olivares Azuara :
I blocked after I found the NEW gf , he kept writing on a shared note . Last friday he wrote he was coming town, I ignored him, and then he posted a picture of his new Love in a place we planned going
2024-11-18 19:37:46
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𝒫𝒶𝓊𝓁𝒶✨💖 :
It’s a vicious cycle that will happen with all the new persons too unless they choose to heal! Speaking from experience with my ex avoidant partner.
2024-11-19 18:46:12
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Youssef Mahgoub :
so how do i get her back? she’s with the new guy now… ik it won’t last. But how do I win her back after
2024-11-20 19:12:49
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Tess :
coming across your content was the best thing that has happened before the year ends..
2024-12-09 18:55:09
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DivaDee :
Wow...Just...WOW...I'm speechless.
2024-11-21 05:20:03
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Alec Iannelli :
So when they do this you just remain in no contact and hope that either you heal and move on or they come back and admit their mistakes?
2024-11-20 02:06:24
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Lilith1977 :
Aha ! 👌
2024-11-18 16:07:22
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eguidewek :
Perfect timing. Just saw him posting an Ig storie with his new gf soo in love ( a month ago he was still semding me stuff on instagram and reacting to my stories). You can not love someone in a month
2024-11-19 10:38:47
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Rocki Awsum Abernethy :
😂😂😂 I actually laughed
2024-11-18 18:19:48
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