@missclairebenjamin: 🚨 Handling sexist remarks👇 Being on the receiving end of derogatory sexist remarks can really catch you off guard. It can be hard to know how to handle it. As a result we can sometimes find ourselves absorbing it or laughing it off and then afterwards feeling incredibly small. Remember you do not need to absorb other people’s inappropriate behaviour. In these situations I would recommend shifting the dynamic and politely placing the discomfort back onto them. The important thing is not to bite or engage with the dynamic. This makes the other person look unprofessional. 💬 Leave a 🙌 in the comments if this was helpful 👀 📌 Please be mindful that the perspective offered in this video is generalised and won’t fit every situation so please follow your instincts about whether this applies to your situation. You’ve got this! 🗂️ Save this for when you need it ✈️ Share with someone this could help 🚀 Follow for more tips on handling tricky people and situations at work #worktips #leadershipdevelopment #corporatelife #emotionalintelligence #difficultconversations #communicationskills #conflictmanagement #assertive #difficultpeople #boundaries

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travelmama04
Jess1988 :
I like “did you mean to say that out loud?” 😂😂
2024-11-18 19:56:02
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8utistic_3itch
bi🏳️‍🌈autistic♾️witch✨ :
"no actually Steve is MY assistant." 😂
2024-11-20 01:45:33
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krabbbie
Krabbbie :
My favourite technique is to just repeatedly say “sorry I didn’t hear you, can you repeat that?” until it gets awkward
2024-11-18 19:36:19
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mrs_witz
Marcel Horowitz :
I wish I could think that fast on my feet. It always throws me off and I can’t respond fast enough!
2024-11-19 05:10:17
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yokiieonline
C:\Users\Y⏻kiie :
saying "what a weird thing to say out loud" always works for me
2024-12-16 23:58:06
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ms_december
Lauren :
A guy once said I was probably invited to a meeting cause I was cute. I said no it’s cause of my Masters degree (in the topic)
2024-11-20 01:55:05
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the_lakes_13
the lakes :
What about when Steve is far senior and you are kinda the assistant role, would this change your advice? Love your videos by the way!
2024-11-18 20:11:59
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labradorlove5
Apple User324329 :
I usually just say “Wow”
2024-11-19 10:19:26
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user7449536027326
SMLL :
How do you know it makes us uncomfortable? Some may see it as flattery.
2024-11-19 20:36:37
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eliha.bey
Eli Bé ⚜️💙 :
My universal answer to anything akward, sexist, « jokes » or else: I don’t understand, what do you mean? 😏
2024-11-20 03:38:27
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enoki707
enoki707 :
The only thing is when you stand up for yourself they gaslight you into being weird 🥺
2024-11-19 08:27:37
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jack_and_me18
KG :
Agreed. However, for me, I would be calculating how much that is going to hurt my ability to get what I need to get done hurting me more in the long run .
2024-11-20 01:19:41
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101a098
101a098 :
You give Kate Middleton vibes!!
2024-11-21 21:35:18
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markheadroom
MarkHeadroom :
What should you do if you’re Steve in this scenario?
2024-12-02 22:16:53
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jessie13xx
jessie' :
My teacher said this to me..
2024-12-28 21:32:31
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m.m_butterfly
m.m_butterfly :
isn't it just sad that we have to learn these in the first place.
2024-11-26 18:13:07
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peaches_b_sniffer
Haddi :
Thank you for this
2024-11-20 15:20:44
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charlie114159
charlie🐊🏉🎸 :
I love how I haven't even left secondary😂 school and I follow and watch these regularly lol
2024-11-26 22:09:45
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ameliadelcastillo
𝒜𝓂𝑒𝓁𝒾𝒶 𝒞𝒶𝓈𝓉𝒾𝓁𝓁𝑜 :
Love this!!!
2024-11-21 16:18:52
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.claire5
claireee :
I like to say in a very concerned motherly tone : « are you well ? You look pale and ill »
2024-11-25 12:57:35
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user9252844162790
Snarktank :
I totally get how Claire feels, if one more person asks me if I’m a supermodel at work, Im just going to start handing out business cards with 'not a supermodel, just an HR Business Agility Tech Rep'
2025-01-25 12:51:44
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heatherrhoden978
HagridHair🫠Heather :
when i colleague uve not met yet refers to you as "her" as in ask her. what do you do?
2025-01-29 19:19:26
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amy.shian.tang
Amy Tang :
Youre so pretty
2025-04-27 01:50:07
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calicot8
calicot :
Could you do how to handle comments on my personal life by coworkers? specifically them telling me (in a joke form but still) I should find a husband and get kids and stuff, it's embarrassing and>
2024-11-23 17:32:02
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