@dr.kojosarfo: Do you feel shame when you want things to be easy? 🤔 #audhd #adhd #asd

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angelicatrujillo56
Angelica Trujillo :
I have been watching your videos makes me feel better
2025-01-14 07:05:55
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cocoriinaa
CocoRiinaa :
He is so spot on 😌 with depression EVERYTHING feels like a huge task. Esp with adhd
2024-11-19 00:40:02
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niceykima
Nat🩻 :
I wasted years in school with that mentality 🥵
2025-01-08 01:43:57
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wholedeb_stu780
Maylynn :
Including ppl…. If it takes too much work I’m done
2024-11-19 04:07:03
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liz.in.miami
Liz :
I can’t clean my room. It’s a blockage
2024-11-24 04:13:55
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sajmaha
Saj Mahal♐️🌞 ♌️✨ :
I’m the extreme opposite. I can’t move on until I figure it out. Ppl who give up too easily give me the ick. I learned to come to a stopping point, walk away, then come back to it later.
2024-11-19 03:33:47
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bougieblkgirl
Mercedes :
What’s hard for other people is usually easy for me and vice versa. Idk shits weird
2024-11-19 01:06:32
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leisureluxurylh
leisureluxurylh :
I don’t shame myself I want the easy route in everything! I’m not working hard, I want it I will keep/maintain it. But I’m not going to going thru hell to obtain it.
2024-11-19 11:38:58
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thepolypocket
Polypocket :
I do this to a fault. Over complicating then turns into paralyzing procrastination 😭
2024-11-19 14:55:28
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beautifulgemini87
Peachy :
The information I need to learn has 3 business days for me to understand it, after that idc I'm doing it my way. 😂
2024-11-19 13:37:09
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raeray83
rayrae :
I spend my life making things easier for myself so if it's already easy it's not right
2024-11-19 20:52:25
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bex.coleman69
Bex Coleman69 :
I think the issue we have, especially older diagnosed, is that when we choose the "easy" route, we then have to also explain why we're doing that to people we have known our whole lives and that in itself can be exhausting,that said, I am with you!
2024-11-19 01:47:18
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maria2kurly
Maria Kurly :
What she said… so me
2024-11-19 05:06:00
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hnxszaj
Nenern :
Im the same way but opposite lol
2024-11-19 04:56:20
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tvbaybee
Darshan Ariel TV3 :
I think part of it stems from the fact that in youth everything came easy neuro children would probably benefit from multi layered challenges
2024-11-19 08:31:32
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martian.vert
Néh :
Complexity that springs from an internal spark feels good.
2024-11-19 16:35:12
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verybigb.tch
Verybigbitch :
Yes
2024-11-19 08:53:59
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lillyharvest404
Lilly Harvest (H MJ) :
ikr? I make everything SO hard 😭
2024-11-18 23:50:03
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mmmayca
Mica :
💯
2024-11-19 11:44:47
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amarukur
Amarukur :
Yup I’m a quitter lmfao I’ll quit in a heartbeat!!
2024-11-19 08:01:04
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yamamadidthis
Fdxskippy :
I used to feel shame but now I dont because im right and anyone who disagrees is wrong. Who wants difficulty with EVERYTHING? I want the easiest jobs, love and life
2024-11-19 06:33:13
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lam19549
lam❤️ :
If I can’t just do it the first time I try it I literally never do it again.
2024-11-18 23:18:11
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janiahab
janiah :
no one could make me feel bad for up & leaving or giving up. if i'm unhappy in any aspect, i'm gone. life is too short to force anything! jobs, relations, routines, i need them to just flow.
2024-11-19 17:19:26
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j.cole1992
Jasper :
I try to make it easy but it’s really difficult 😣
2024-11-19 00:42:34
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gina_jenell
Gina. :
Wow😳 co-workers have commented on how “colorful” my planner is
2024-11-19 01:24:18
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chelsea_j30
Chelsea.J :
Seeing it through has been my hardest task
2024-11-19 13:57:54
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blvckwanderlust
blvckamericana :
We complicate things for the plot! lol
2024-11-19 08:37:46
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havootu
Havootu Crystal :
nah I'm with ol girl. if it cause too much mental and emotional upheaval, I don't care how easy it look to everybody else it's, hard to me😂😂. i like easy. hard roads are for other pple🤣🤣🤣
2024-11-19 00:31:35
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chilllynn_
Lyn Lyn :
I’m a so called easy person. People think I’m selfish.
2024-11-19 02:15:30
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ressebrown
Resse🇯🇲❤️📚❤️✈️❤️🍲❤️💬 :
I like order and process the older i get the more I lean into it. I learned to us my strengths to get thru my weaknesses
2024-11-19 16:23:42
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quietstorm1095
Quiet Storm :
Right!
2024-11-20 12:23:39
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solareclipse558
solareclipse558 :
✨️Get out of my skin ✨️(I'm working on it)
2024-11-19 21:43:45
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msesqueda
Danielle Esqueda :
Thanks for this 🫶🏽
2024-11-19 07:50:48
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shriji.baba
shriji.baba :
A lot of people who are/grew up in immigrant households tend to make things really difficult because we’re been taught the hard life is the only life and if we don’t struggle then we will not succeed.
2024-11-19 07:08:40
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fearless.singing
fearlesssinging.com :
Doc you buried the lede here. Pls make a separate video and talk more about the color coding bc I’m having an aha moment over here. (As time allows ofc.)
2024-11-19 02:28:39
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tamyra.myra
TheVoyagers :
This information is so needed thank you 🥰
2024-11-25 07:10:32
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leholistichoney
jadore 🌺 :
There’s nothing wrong with that because I’ve been doing life the hard way and all I have to show for it is an auto immune disease
2024-11-24 16:54:35
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antiantiantiantiantianti
🅰🅽🆃🅸 :
Eh, there's a way for everyone, yet if you choose the most difficult way, you get used to it. It gets easy and you can also do interconnections that way with other things in a difficu level. Worth it.
2024-11-23 12:05:10
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ginger.pineapple
TK THE MUSE 🤸🏾‍♀️ :
And what’s funny is procrastinate so bad then wond up doing THE MOST like no wonder things are hard
2024-11-22 05:37:12
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aileenflowerss
aileenflowerss :
Oh my goodness, I’m the opposite. Once I get started on something I commit bc I’m scared of failure.. then I go into a depressive episode for months :/
2024-11-22 04:42:51
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regular_chick
Just Me :
So you’re saying quit my job? Got it✅
2024-11-22 00:33:41
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thats.what.shee.said
Shee :
🎯 I wish EVERYTHING was color coded!!
2024-11-21 18:01:47
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emmalouise6305
Emmalouise💜 :
I didn’t even realise this was an unspoken rule🙈
2024-11-21 01:33:22
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rootdnradiance
rootdnradiance :
Agreed.
2024-11-20 08:57:49
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lisetterivera7
Liz :
Wow interesting
2024-11-20 03:19:33
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marijuliette
Mari Juliette Real Estate :
Woww I def make things harder on myself than they need to be 🫠
2024-11-19 22:05:33
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itsstacylai
ItsStacy :
I just don’t care lol does that make sense. People, food, life…… if you make me work too hard. Bye!!!
2024-11-19 19:07:25
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sonofthors05_
Ð :
i make shit way to fucking hard for myself
2024-11-19 14:40:06
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