I’ve started a “A To Don’t List”. I write “don’t make your bed” and I be like “Don’t tell me what to do!” And then I make my bed.
2024-11-20 03:42:01
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Kaz 🇨🇦 :
This is so me. Can pathways be repaired or are new ones just created by redirecting around the impulse? Your content is gold. I no longer feel so alone. Thank you ❤️
2025-01-03 11:42:30
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Honey :
Rest, mine doesn’t let me rest
2024-11-21 15:17:07
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Village Herbalist :
This was an excellent explanation of why I can sit and stare when there's so much to do, or used to run from bath water as a child 😳
2024-11-19 16:27:50
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Sevastiel :
I need to force myself to talk to people, because its so overwhelming to have people want me around. It is horrible and I hate it, (the demand avoidance) because I love them so dearly, but it feels-
2024-11-19 23:53:27
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Lyric :
Thank you. This explanation was extremely helpful and will help me navigate this better.
2024-11-19 15:34:19
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Shawn Steven :
I don't answer phone anymore
2024-11-19 21:09:14
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Tarrcart :
I do this with eating during the day. I don’t want to interrupt my daily activities to bother to eat. I eat when my day is over.
2024-11-20 01:40:49
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Sally 779 :
Well explained thankyou .
2024-12-02 07:07:47
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Cleo :
I’ve struggled with brushing my teeth and drinking water my whole life.
2024-11-19 19:57:23
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Katie :
For me it’s cooking. I’m recently diagnosed with AUDHD and have two sons on the spectrum. I had to cook individual meals for everyone when they were little. Having to cook viscerally affects me.
2024-11-19 20:02:00
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jacquakevis :
Do you think you could talk about getting angry when someone tries to comfort you? I don’t know what to do because I don’t want to lash out when someone tries I help me when I’m upset
2024-11-19 20:39:34
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George Cat and his Bros :
Phone calls. Or being asked/reminded to do things I was going to do on my own
2024-11-19 23:46:47
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Sakemomo :
is this corrupted pathway the reason I have such a hard time reaching out to my important people or instigating activities but am delighted when I'm doing or speaking with them? growing up I... 1/
2024-11-23 05:18:00
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Katie :
so hard with work
2024-11-21 13:31:19
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lori__1979 :
I see this SO much with the kids I work with in early intervention
2024-12-08 13:44:57
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offgridmama :
I'm sending this one to my mom, here's hoping part of my Christmas gift could be a sub for your community ❤️
2024-12-01 14:10:12
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nakushita :
Well that explains everything I’ve been fighting with. I even try to create fake urgency. Ugh.
2024-11-19 23:29:57
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KARIS :
I’m a musician and last year I started to get consistent on socials/growing my following. But I go through phases where I swear off social media and delete everything (even gone so far as to get a
2024-11-20 19:44:41
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StephsNerdyStuff :
wondering if I'm shutting down and going into freeze in therapy because I'm perceiving their direct questions as demand. He asks me something and my upstairs brain shuts off and then shamespirals
2024-11-19 16:59:13
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Pengutus Bencana Pawaka :
I wish research is done to validate your explanation. It makes so much sense that it merits a paper on the subject. It also pose the question wether ADHD is primarily genetics or could this cortisol conditioning contributes to the condition.
2024-11-19 21:01:58
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Chante :
Im curious, do you think waiting until the last moment to capitalize on feeling pressured to complete something is reinforcing this cortisol pathway over dopamine?
2024-11-24 13:43:31
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Rose :
I believe that all demand avoidance behaviors can be lessened by working to find ways to provide more support to the person who is feeling triggered. depending on the spectrum communicating these...
2024-11-19 16:45:00
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Matante Tacule :
I'm a middle aged woman who is just realizing that I probably have this to a certain level (I don't have a diagnosis)
but most examples are about kids :/
2024-11-23 21:11:10
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Jamal :
Man, your stuff is so good.
You put many things into words similar to me
as well as
You put things into words that I wasn't previously able to describe
as well as
You teach me so much!!!
2024-11-19 21:47:40
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