@natashavctoria: You cannot force someone to do anything, you only have control over what you tolerate #foryou #foryoupage #fyp #attachmenttheory #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #earnedsecureattachment #dismissiveavoidant #relationshipadvice #attachmentstyle #attachmentstyleawareness #growth #healing #selflove #anxiousattachmentstyle
You set boundaries by never getting involved with an avoidant.
2024-11-21 23:49:44
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Donna.b. :
avoidants like the control so don't contact them
2024-11-21 22:36:33
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Agirlfrommaryland :
Pull ur energy. It’s painful but you can’t convince them to talk.
2024-11-21 23:33:20
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KrazyKirdy 🌸🎨✨ :
I’m not sure if my anxiety and insecurities pushed him away, but either way could you share some suggestions on healing this to avoid attracting avoidants in the future?
2024-11-21 20:21:51
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Sheri K Stella :
I've done this at least 20x with my avoidant. BUT, they always come back, put a little more effort in for few months, then run. So, now I say nothing. But it doesn't stop him from reaching out.
2024-11-21 21:23:02
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Kels :
LET them. And go live your life. 💛
2024-11-22 06:29:48
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lauraloo1129 :
Took 18 years in my failed marriage with an avoidant to realize he wasn’t going to change but learning why I accepted and kept trying to get him to choose me was about me and not him.
2024-11-22 03:40:06
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StartAgain_heal :
Why avoidant come back after blocking
2024-11-21 19:32:32
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Applebottomjeans :
Please just leave an avoidant. They are not worth the pain. I promise.
2024-12-21 15:39:14
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Dodson :
It took me 4 weeks to realize I am chasing my tail rather than accepting he can’t and chooses not to. Thank you for this message
2024-11-24 08:47:34
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Oh..ok. :
When a snake bites you are you going to ask why it bit you or are you going to try and get help? 😅
2024-12-21 04:24:26
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Tracy :
Love your perspective and explanation. My bf broke up with me after almost 4 years. I made myself small because of his trigger. That caused so much (unspoken) pain.
2024-11-21 20:11:12
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💛Becca Ellis💛 :
I think this video has helped me the most.
2025-03-01 13:13:25
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lesegogavin :
I am done trying to convince people to love me and get approval from them
2024-11-22 14:35:54
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wendyaug :
eye-opener ❤️
2024-12-27 20:54:09
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Andrew Benassi :
doesn't mean you can justify their actions. Just run away
2024-11-27 19:43:34
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Henrik :
they need to heal.
2024-12-28 23:25:03
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eddiefranco497 :
she blocked me and ran.
2024-11-21 21:50:09
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MADELINE BEETON :
Damn.
2024-12-21 16:20:36
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user97113723921401 :
Aka leave the avoidant when they play with you like that and find some better and more healed
2024-12-29 03:20:45
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Retired girlfriend :
I blocked … finished . Done .
2025-01-10 12:13:57
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I AM :
Right.. I get it…. But when the avoidant sets us up in the beginning by being all open and saying what they want and love bombing I guess…
2024-11-21 23:18:24
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💥🎸🥁GTDrummer🥁🎸💥 :
💯 wt?
2024-11-22 23:06:32
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Moira Jo :
Sometimes you’ve got to let them go if you can’t deal with their wound. They need to heal
2025-03-18 04:20:35
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