@beyondthebruise: The moment we stop engaging, we disarm them. Step 1 in taking your power back!! #DomesticViolenceAwareness #EndDomesticViolence #BreakTheSilence #DVAM #dvawareness #dvsurvivor💜 #dvsurvivor #narcissist #narctok #narcissism
Was told I was disrespectful and cold for not reacting and that was the confirmation I needed to know this person was a narcissist.
2024-11-30 23:36:37
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Nicole Lee :
I have started doing this and now, in his eyes, I’m obviously the narcissist because I’m giving him the silent treatment 😅🤷🏼♀️
2024-11-25 13:39:47
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ꌃꋪꀤꍏꈤ 😈 :
1000% - You said it perfectly
2024-11-24 17:15:54
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DaddyLongLegs :
Sometimes if you don’t say anything, and no reaction they still flip it around on you saying you have negative energy.
2024-11-26 17:51:44
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🌸Dara🌸 :
🎯🎯🎯 stop reacting stop explaining all that she is so on point
2024-11-24 09:23:58
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devynpereyra :
My father has always told me “the day you allow someone to have control of your emotions is the day you give them power”. It has stuck with me since a child. He was so right
2024-12-21 15:35:03
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Alejandra Pulido :
lol I stopped reacting and now I am constantly being called the “cold hearted” and “selfish” daughter of the family 🙃
2024-12-01 08:40:44
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Mrsjhnsn :
Thiissssss. Spent YEARS defensive and they loved it. Now I sit back and let them be confused.
2024-11-25 20:12:16
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LacyWebb :
Yes but it’s sooo hard! 😡
2024-11-25 15:22:38
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medicmama2 :
The moment I stopped reacting… he told me and my kids to get out. The moment I went silent it was ME causing the problems. Yes. What you say is 100% true
2024-11-26 01:38:33
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Clare :
100%. The only people who have a problem with your boundaries are people who benefit from you not having any.
2024-12-23 23:22:01
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Gina Officer965 :
it's tempting to react when exhausted & frustrated. I just saw a video that suggested singing to yourself the Happy Birthday song every time someone tries to trigger you & the song give you pause.
2024-11-24 13:54:14
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Averyk33 :
no one talks about how hard it is though when you're being silent and they continue to yell and berrate and gaslight you. especially in front of others, my christmas was ruined this year with this 🥺
2024-12-26 00:26:44
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encyclopediabrwnskngirl :
I just stopped talking & took my energy back. my health improved & his deteriorated
2024-12-21 22:21:29
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Meghan :
Needed this. I had paragraphs written out to my mom whom I'm no contact with. I deleted it. ❤️
2024-12-02 20:43:34
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gretchentherapist :
I just did and whoa 🤯
2024-11-25 13:25:22
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danielaaxo :
“our silence speaks a lot louder than their manipulation”… couldn’t of said it better myself. 💯👏🏻
2024-12-09 00:36:37
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Rachael Frances :
Yes ❤️no answer is your answer
2024-11-26 12:32:46
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Nay ❤️ :
I reaaally needed to hear this today!
2024-11-25 08:05:32
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crazeecrystal :
Still trying to do that it is so hard when triggered by ptsd sometimes
2024-11-26 06:36:39
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Michiman517 :
I started practicing meditation while I was married to one. She filed for divorce after I began noticing my thoughts instead of reacting to them
2024-11-26 18:08:12
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Sandy :
That is 100% true but so damn hard to
2024-11-26 04:14:09
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jo3eye :
It works 😍 when u r at spiritual peace with ur own heart 💜 🔥fire is the pretense 🥰
2024-12-22 00:18:53
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ofelia Aguayo :
I have not engaged with my MIL for a year now 🙌🏼
2024-11-24 17:53:36
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