@lifestorytt: Why Avoidant And Anxious Partners Find It Hard To Split Up#education #lifestory #lifelessons #partner #avoidant #Relationship #fyp

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josephhernandez40
Joseph Hernandez :
So how do you fix it?
2024-11-27 19:48:49
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happyjellybean69
Kк :
I bet all/most of us in the comments are the anxious ones. Our avoidant half would not watch this whole video and comment lol
2024-11-26 03:25:42
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asapandys
Andys :
yeah it’s really not fun😃
2024-12-16 11:11:14
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itsjustkhay
Khay :
Why do avoidants always have to be the villains
2024-11-26 06:28:13
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thankgoodness15
THANKGOODNESS :
Anxious and anxious = 🥰
2024-11-24 21:15:57
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stayupkings3
StayUpKings :
I just wanted respect and communication. I don’t think that’s too much to ask for from anyone of any attachment type. I’m tired of avoidents being given passes for their behavior.
2024-11-25 00:45:07
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velvetinevalentine
velvetinevalentine :
The anxious person doesn't wanna leave
2024-11-25 18:05:11
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_.dessireex
_.dessireex :
Avoidant here, I get overstimulated and I don’t want a conversation all the time. I don’t like giving a play by play of my day or keeping ppl updated
2024-11-26 16:07:20
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mvfish
Mars :
The video really says avoidant option is to learn to be less avoidant and anxious option is to learn to leave the avoidant 😂
2024-12-19 06:05:45
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metagotts
metagotts :
Avoid Avoidants at all costs. You will teach yourself that you’re unlovable and spend years healing.
2024-11-26 07:09:12
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sydney.alise_
sydney.alise_ :
Avoidant here, I’m so sorry to all the anxious.. We tend to self destruct
2024-11-26 04:28:40
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roseeeeeeeeeast9
Rose :
How can I be both at the same time 😭
2024-11-28 13:21:36
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drewgam55
Drew :
Or……… you learn the trauma and the triggers and you grow together……… you can do it and it can be done…….. if you both want it.
2024-11-24 18:38:06
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guaptastical
$hine ⭐️ :
avoidant usually gets overwhelmed w big emotions in any situation and thats why we tend to self isolate or sabotage. most times, in our childhoods, we learned big emotions aren’t safe. 1/2
2024-11-27 13:37:10
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zzzbell
Zoe :
And anxious needs to do some self reflection too! It’s also toxic to not respect others boundaries or rely on others to self-soothe - lots of pressure to put on a relationship
2024-11-28 17:49:06
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booboo.bunny.bitch
Boo boo bunny :
Trauma made me avoidant. Last relationship I left because I knew he deserved someone who loved him with no restraint. Hate to see avoidant people villainized
2024-11-25 18:19:59
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simple_and_normal
Reformed :
was secure. got with an anxious and he made me become avoidant. Now with a secure and I have returned to secure. People with anx smother you until you can't breathe and then call you avoidant lol
2024-11-25 21:57:14
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blanco_lml
blanco_lml :
1/1 I was always secure til my avoidant ex fiancé. She flipped a 180 on me as soon as I put the ring on her finger and felt so alone in the relationship. I would express what was bothering me and it..
2024-11-25 13:58:45
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lucidd76
lucidd76 :
Anxious girly here with an avoidant boyfriend 🥰 I learned his triggers , he learned mine … even with my BPD , HE LEARNED AND I LEARNED AND NOW WE’RE GREAT … you have to LEARN each other
2024-11-25 09:52:15
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awildadiaz
Awilda Diaz :
Basically and BPD and Narcisistic relationship
2024-11-26 05:30:03
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jadeslurr
jadeslurr :
i was in a relationship for the last two years and i was an avoidant partner, it wasn’t fair and i hope that my ex can find someone who fulfills them. i really do miss them but…
2024-12-03 10:50:16
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somebody.pdf
⛓️ Rogan ⛓️ :
I’m a combination of anxious and avoidant but got fed up with the full on avoidant and have dipped. Super content.
2024-11-26 23:45:08
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soyummia
Mia :
I don’t think this does a good job explaining how suffocating an anxiously attached person can feel to an avoidant, and how they should improve as well. This was described as if anxious = secure here
2024-11-27 11:02:16
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deadlynightshady
maddy :
Not me starting as anxious and ending the relationship as avoidant
2024-11-28 08:04:55
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spitzi_xxx
spiTziiii_xx :
this sums up my relationship, long distance even.
2024-12-01 18:35:08
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