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murray :
Your feelings are valid but the goal of care remained the same. A healthy mom and baby, and your OB did that
2024-11-25 14:00:39
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Elle D :
For the people that would really like one way or another for birthing - why is there so much importance and emotion behind it?
2024-11-26 11:27:57
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jennifer thiele :
I did have a vbac and a part of the plecenta retained and caused me to hemmorage for 6 weeks. it was worse than a c section.
2024-11-25 08:46:02
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Rachel Or Something :
If the unanswered questions bother you, maybe you can reach out to the doctor and have them explain the reasoning. Idk if they do this— it’s just a thought— but it might help
2024-11-25 17:25:37
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Kk1234 :
A vbac after quads? 😳
2024-11-25 23:21:03
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Rosemary :
So hey your primary and your OB have such different training. What a doctor thinks might be a good candidate, may not translate to OB when safety of Mom and baby takes priority over comfort.
2024-11-25 16:22:55
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Jennifer 🖤 :
while valid.... you're alive mama . you can be mad and sad. but remember you are alive and hopefully healthy /happy
2024-11-25 09:32:34
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libby 🌿 :
Can someone explain to me why the method of birth is so important? I have a 15 month old that I birthed vaginally but honestly the birth was such a blur. It was such a short moment that I don’t even
2024-11-25 14:21:28
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Cass 🩷🌸🎀 :
I felt and still feel the same way after my failed VBAC two years ago... now preparing for a VBA2C in March hopefully. Thinking of you. It is so hard to not feel guilty or feel robbed.
2024-11-25 12:16:29
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thatonegirl9889 :
They keep pushing the idea of a c section for me, I’ve expressed so much that isn’t what I want.. and I’m terrified they’re not gonna respect that.
2024-11-25 04:55:59
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MJ :
VBAC after quadruplets would be genuinely insane. I'm happy you and your baby are healthy instead. Congrats!
2024-11-26 20:16:37
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Denise :
I had a VBAC and honestly regret it. The Tearing and the prolapse were not worth it in my opinion just because I wanted to experience natural birth after twins. I’ll need a mesh implant
2024-11-25 17:25:18
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Krissy Pugh :
My daughter is a happy healthy 4 yr old and I STILL mourn the birth I didnt get to have. I understand how you feel ❤️
2024-11-25 08:31:21
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kenseyk :
I am a VBAC baby & almost died as well as my mom. The next time mom got a new doctor & he went against her wishes and she was MAD for months. He told her months later it was either that or 2 body bags
2024-11-25 21:55:13
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kayceee____ :
why does the birth method matter?
2024-11-26 16:32:50
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Ashleigh 🌺 :
The end goal is to make sure you and baby are safe ..
2024-11-26 20:51:35
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𝒶𝓃𝓃𝒶 𝑔𝓇𝒶𝒸ℯ :
I get it 🫶🏼 it’s so hard knowing our birth experiences will only ever be in an operating room. Ik it’s great me & my babies are safe but it still feels like I failed. You’re not alone
2024-11-25 20:30:09
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ellicopter :
How you feel is valid. It’s okay to mourn what you wanted while still being grateful that you survived. Grief is complicated & multifaceted. 🫶🏻
2024-11-25 13:57:51
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allofthatandmoe :
I'm so sorry for all the "just be grateful" comments. You're allowed to be grateful AND sad ❤️🩹
2024-11-25 15:02:08
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Carter🕷️ :
i’m sorry all the comments minimizing your pain and thinking they know your situation. your feelings are completely valid mama 🩷
2024-11-25 14:48:48
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mollie 🌺 :
I had a c section with my first and plan to attempt a VBAC with my second. I completely understand how you feel. 🫶🏻
2024-11-25 14:30:54
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Emily ✨ :
Your feelings are valid. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. ❤️
2024-11-25 09:39:15
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Alexis Marie :
I had my 2nd csection in July after a failed VBAC and cry almost everyday because of it… you’re not alone and it’s okay to grieve 🫶🏼
2024-11-25 16:08:52
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Trauma queen :
I got my VBAC but my OB was so great and he supported me every step. I’m sorry yours didn’t.
2024-11-25 16:08:01
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kylaaa :
it's honestly sad how many invalidating comments there are regarding your experience. your feelings are valid. and they are real. im sorry 🩷
2024-11-25 08:19:44
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