@a.n.lyseng: When it comes to emotions and healing, everyone has their own journey. People handle grief, loss, and emotional challenges differently. Some might need more time, while others find closure faster. It’s really important to respect that individuality. It can also be tempting to compare someone's experience to your own or to others, but that can invalidate their feelings. What seems trivial to one person can be deeply significant to another. Sometimes, just being there to listen can make a huge difference. Encouraging your partner to share their feelings without offering unsolicited advice can help them feel understood. Instead of suggesting timelines, focus on how you can support them. This could be through simple acts of kindness, spending time together, or just checking in regularly. If your partner is really struggling, gently encouraging them to seek professional help can be beneficial. A therapist can provide the tools and guidance needed for healing. And remember, patience is key. Healing takes time, and being patient shows your partner that you care. Letting them know it’s okay to feel whatever they’re feeling without any pressure to “move on” can be really comforting. By fostering an environment of support and understanding, you can help your partner navigate their emotions in a healthy way.
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Monday 25 November 2024 21:24:33 GMT
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Carol :
Key is consistency!!! You trigger them it begins again.
2024-11-26 17:23:16
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rae :
nah cause i was constantly RE-TRAUMATIZED every few months 😭 my poor nervous system is so FRIEEED (i am always exhausted now idk when the pain will end)
2024-11-27 18:47:07
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lililidadatel12 :
indeed!
2024-12-05 10:47:46
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heyo :
And when the first six months of trying to give someone another chance you find out about smaller things they do and did to disrespect you, the clock keeps resetting and you quit trying to
2024-11-26 20:50:15
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Christine :
he thinks after a week I should be over it and forgive him
2024-12-01 11:30:45
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Cammie :
...so basically we aren't ever going back. 😂
2024-11-26 19:19:03
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itsjustme27 :
he's never been consistent for more then a week. then back to his old self cause if I don't accept him right away he doesn't want to try
2024-11-28 20:12:10
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Brittany Russell :
2 years is worth the struggle when it's worth the rest of your life🥰
2024-11-26 21:57:14
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NanaTsTarot🔮 :
yup .... heart break is real 😔😔
2024-12-10 13:41:45
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Shari :
how can i train my brain to recall happy memories easier than sad memories?
2024-11-27 18:17:26
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Fabulous fifties!! 🇨🇦 :
He will never be safe. I left.
2024-11-28 19:03:37
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Yama momma rider :
It’s been a year. We separated he moved on then came back. I’m still hurting. 😔
2024-11-29 07:19:16
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CeeCee :
he expects me to be over him cheating AGAIN in less than a week. it's too much or annoying that I keep speaking on it. 9 years I've been with this person. all 9 years this sht
2024-11-27 18:04:13
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Camcamok :
My FIL has been really hurtful to me and then he’s nice for about 6 months to even a year but he does it again. And I never seem to be able to get past feeling guarded
2024-11-27 13:51:18
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Amanecer Islas :
3.5 years alone and still afraid of opening myself to somebody else because he broke me so much that I'm afraid to be that broken again
2024-11-28 17:28:41
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Isabel Nava :
Two years minimum*
2024-11-27 19:32:05
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DaisyCakes :
Ommgg I was hoping this would be less time but it makes sense.
2024-11-27 16:41:33
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mrs hatake :
its only been one month and she already told me to get over it so now im just repressing everything until i lose feelings for her. i cant wait to stop loving her like this.
2024-11-27 22:15:26
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Chelle🦆 :
I felt this so much.
2024-11-26 15:35:57
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lunita13x :
it’s why it takes me time to fully trust and feel safe around people bc I’ve been hurt too many times. my childhood was abusive so I need people that are patient and safe
2024-11-27 20:17:01
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Heather Savagemomlife :
Well dang there’s that
2024-11-29 02:11:39
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jenniferoliver205 :
mybhusband cheated on me 6 years after I did something he said bothered him and he planned and executed what he did intentionally to harm me emotionally
2024-12-09 18:17:58
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Sinbad :
HIS FYP NOT MINE HIS NOT MINE
2024-12-03 06:39:01
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Unconditional Love 💕 :
Genau nach 2 Jahren in eine neue Beziehung gegangen, hab noch nie zuvor jemanden so sehr vertraut und er hat mir in einem Jahr bewiesen , wie wenig ich ihm vertrauen hätte sollen. Also fangen die 2
2025-01-13 09:58:52
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fudd.the.nimrod :
but I thought it was old history after a month and I should be past it?
2024-11-27 19:43:23
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