Thank you. These reminders help. Logically I know who I was and how I showed up, hard not to pick over every little thing.
2024-11-28 16:47:38
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Mike :
I would say that during the relationship itself I was a healthy partner, but when he broke up with me I just never experienced that and didn’t know what to do so now I just felt so toxic after it
2024-11-28 22:47:06
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CJ :
Thank you… i needed this. This overthinking is almost killing me
2024-11-28 19:57:40
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Mike StudentMD :
I am sorry. I rushed. lol
2024-11-29 18:24:32
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Angelica🐧 :
me thinking about myself in the relationship with these parameters: "yay I was a healthy partner🙂" // me thinking about my ex: "😬...."
2024-11-28 01:12:54
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thelittlegreenwheels :
There is extremely little I can find I would do differently in my 16 year marriage apart from leaving earlier. Our relationship went the way it went and I think it was inevitable in hindsight.
2024-11-28 20:45:38
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JessThornton :
I really needed that thank you 🥰
2024-11-27 21:16:43
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deanejames801 :
so was I unhealthy for having compassion fatigue, lacking sympathy when my spouse caused her situation, being told we were a team but never being treated like a team member?
2024-11-29 03:06:09
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Edgey :
I did, but was dealing with depression which she said she couldn’t handle anymore, even though I supported her and was there for her always
2024-11-28 12:27:42
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cat :) :
I genuinly remember how excited I was to go to the same school again. I envisioned us working as a team and making plans to accomplish our future goals together. How things change 🥲💔
2024-11-27 23:56:59
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xkatie.rochex :
Crazy 😭 all these are the reasons I left bc I wanted to have a healthy relationship but he stonewalled me and crossed my boundaries I was very clear was a nonnegotiable 😪 tried my best
2024-11-27 22:54:55
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Catalina Purdue-Pulido :
This helped me a lot, thank you
2024-11-27 23:53:09
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Bryan 🫠 :
I should’ve validated her reality more. If she says she feels a certain way, validate her. We may have the best intentions, but it’s all about how the message is received. 🙂
2024-11-28 07:05:36
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baict286 :
I needed to hear this
2024-11-28 06:06:44
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tiktok :
I did all 3. But never received them back. She tried to guild trip me afterwards. Manipulating me wherever she could. Needless to say I’m single again.
2024-11-29 22:45:41
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bopboopbeep6 :
So hard when you think about the all the work you put in because you wanted to and because you loved them but they couldn’t do the same:/ and not just that, but they were so disrespectful too
2024-11-28 03:50:28
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Alicornofdoom :
“You were not controlling”-I got told that caring about her needs&complying w/demands was “controlling” because I was trying to prevent her from yelling at me/making her feel her rage was unjustified.
2024-11-28 00:22:43
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Lukeepook :
Thank you. I gave it 100% until I couldn’t, but I often wonder if there was more I could have done. I wasn’t getting my needs met in return though so I had to leave
2024-11-27 20:26:31
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Brad Parsons :
2 out of 3 ain't bad, right?
2024-11-27 18:26:25
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blind_box_fairy :
I fought so hard when she gave nothing. For a year. I’m broken, I have absolutely no energy left
2024-12-01 05:46:58
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💫✨Shelly ✨💫 :
Made me realise in every relationship I was healthy yet years of blaming myself 😳
2024-11-28 11:34:37
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Scuttlecrab :
I don't need to know if I'm healthy or not. I just want to know if they'll be happy with or without me
2024-11-28 07:54:21
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4STRINGSOFMAGIC :
Well the question is if I can be 100% objective but for now I’d say 3/3 ✅
2024-11-27 18:37:10
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Healing From Narcissists :
That’s so soothing to hear, thank you 🩷
2024-11-28 10:56:10
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