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Kate Price109 :
small talk can be a good way to learn new things about people, even if you already know them. like "what have you been up to today". even if their response is super boring, like "cleaning, made dinner
2024-11-29 04:30:50
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Bianca >:] :
Honestly im neurodivergent, but i usually start concersations with smalltalk (with people i don’t know that well) vid i care a out their life, but mostly in the hopes of finding something more
2025-01-02 11:42:30
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envy adams :
i just feel like it’s hard for some of u to get that not everyone wants their full personality on blast right away and that small talk is good for that kinda stuff
2024-11-29 04:57:25
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=johnathan= :
I feel kinda crazy being one of the only autistic ppl in these comments that doesn’t really mind small talk. Like it’s obv not pleasant but it’s not agonizing??? It’s following a script?? It’s easy??
2024-11-29 07:02:28
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Lycos :
shutting down the conversation is the goal tho
2024-11-29 15:41:34
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Casper !!!:) :
“No because you’d be shutting down the conversation” GOOD I don’t want to talk to anyone
2024-11-29 02:04:22
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ThatoneBisexualMess :
I've discovered the Allistic accepted version of "I didn't do anything this weekend" its called: "I just kinda hung around the house, so all in all it was pretty good!" Even if the 'pretty good' part1
2025-01-03 00:48:21
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🪐🐾𝐕𝐢𝐭𝐨🐾🪐 :
I want to have a conversation but none is interested in games I like
2024-12-30 09:21:54
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elliot :
i heard someone make the comparison of parallel play with nuerptypicals (cleaning, drs appointments, cooking ect. alongside someone's company) and small talk with nuerodivergents. most autistic ppl-(1
2024-12-28 16:26:40
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Em 🩷 :
I think my most unpopular opinion is that I actually love small talk and I’m really good at it. I can turn a conversation from whatever tv show into sharing pivotal life moments relatively easily though
2024-11-29 01:03:18
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Ash :
thinking so hard about what to say that I forgot to ask them reciprocal questions
2024-11-28 22:57:44
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Max‼️ :
like why do they wanr me to lie i thouvht we’re not supposed to lie
2024-11-28 22:46:37
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William Tenkate :
meh I'm not interested in the little game or in pretending to be interested in things I'm not interested in
2024-11-28 22:51:59
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hijaprodiga :
I ask people how their day is because I care about them and love hearing about their little lives. When people treat it like a chore or a script it crushes me.
2024-11-29 01:18:12
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Dahlia :
or you move to the Netherlands were people are roughly as direct as your average autistic (regards from a dutch autistic)
2024-11-28 22:56:23
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Rat the Harvey Hater :
it's good to find a way to tell the truth while also keeping the conversation open, like instead of saying i did nothing i say "i was doing nothing other then watching youtube pretty much" or similar
2024-11-29 05:45:57
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Auri :
People like small talk 😅
2024-11-29 17:13:31
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omgwowalright 🇵🇸 :
No cuz why have small talk??? It doesnt make sense if everyone hates it. I wanna have genuine convos. Honesty.
2024-11-29 12:09:32
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pawg :
I will never apologize for not asking about your weekend.
2024-11-29 08:12:59
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Zombie.clown :
That’s why I love asking personal questions cause I wanna get to know you not the awkward small talk
2024-11-29 13:18:04
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BlueRose Gardener :
small talk is not just an abritrary script! it's fishing for shared interests and possible conversation topics!
2024-11-29 20:03:07
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Not One Of Your Little Friends :
I have started to approach small talk as the time NTs need to calm near nervous systems down. if you're too honest too soon, they feel overstimulated
2024-11-29 10:15:00
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BigManLittlePeter :
Small talk is an important cornerstone of our society. Maybe you don’t care ab the weather or their weekend but by engaging effectively you show you care about that persons presence in your life.
2024-11-29 13:46:48
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pamelah902 :
I've come to love small talk because it's predictable. it's the disagreements.that give me hives
2024-11-29 01:36:53
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