@philosophaire: “ Forgive your parents. They too had a childhood that they didn't heal from. They didn't know what they were doing to you because they didn't get to experience unconditional love as well. Don't try to change that. Now that you're aware, just make sure to break the cycle.” - Shoaib Hussain “ Being a cycle breaker means making the brave choice to confront and heal the patterns we inherited, even when it involves forgiving those closest to us-like our parents. Forgiving them doesn't mean erasing the pain or pretending the past was perfect; it means understanding they, too, were shaped by cycles they didn't break. By choosing forgiveness, we're not just freeing them; we're freeing ourselves.” -Breakingthepsyche
Sometimes, forgiveness isn’t the solution; instead, it’s about cutting off contact, especially with narcissistic parents.
2024-11-30 04:23:56
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agusto1973 :
I only forgive those that take accountability for their actions or inactions. It's not difficult to say I'm sorry I messed up.
2024-11-30 07:05:18
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YouDontMakeFriendsWithSalad :
When they chose the abuser over me..nah
2024-11-30 14:48:35
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Ryan :
As a parent, I cannot comprehend how mine came to the decisions they made. If they were children once, then they knew the consequences.
2024-11-30 18:03:10
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Lona :
Forgive us for our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us ..
2024-11-30 08:23:16
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bagueses :
how to forgive someone you already forgave 100 times and they still hurt you?
2024-12-01 22:58:10
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Jen B :) :
generational trauma ends with me...not having any kids.
2024-12-21 02:49:03
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Noone :
Forgiveness is one of the keys to higher consciousness
2024-11-30 04:02:01
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Tidev :
This is sadly true for millions across the globe.
2024-11-30 03:49:37
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Landon Grantham460 :
no hold them accountable first. that's how you heal. then when you're done healing you can properly forgive them.
2024-11-30 13:59:04
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TheClit🫦 :
Forgive, yes. But also walk away if they don't Even realize or make the effort to understand what are you forgiven them for.
2024-11-30 12:39:30
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evakp :
Forgiving her over and over just lead to being let down again and again until my own old age. 😡😡😡
2024-11-30 17:32:31
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ThirtySeventeen :
I offered that love as a kid and as an adult. i forgive their faults..Hopefully they'll forgive mine
2024-11-30 04:39:44
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The Miami Man :
Sometimes it’s better just to burn the bridges, for the sake of your own mental health and for the future of your kids
2024-11-30 16:05:48
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HollyFarm1 :
If parents didn’t get to experience unconditional love as children, then they should have turned that around and broken the trauma circle and do better when they became parents 😔. Choices!!!!
2024-11-30 13:23:39
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Mirijam :
Nein weil ab einen gewissen Alter kann man selber entscheiden welchen Weg man geht !
2024-12-02 19:50:32
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Rafael :
I forgive my mother 😭😭 now I understand she didn't have a good childhood 😔 either...
2024-11-30 04:56:23
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you can forgive but dont let them continue to hurt you until their death.
2024-11-30 13:22:43
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Aleks Alpha ⚛️🇵🇸🇪🇺 :
We owe nobody an forgiveness!
2024-12-04 03:36:06
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Fajrin :
i didn’t even ask to be born
2025-09-23 09:13:34
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Ketsuppi Glögi :
My mother is good parent. ❤️
2024-12-03 09:16:26
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Madison :
I experienced loneliness and rejection as I child it ruined my life
2024-11-30 06:21:50
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Gemini man ♊ :
my dad knew what he was doing
2024-11-30 14:03:03
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