Layla K. Saleh
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Sara Tisdale :
This! I’m not anxious unless someone gives me a reason to be
2024-12-01 05:04:13
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<3 :
This is what I’ve been saying. I’m mirroring the energy of the other person. If they are secure and give me enough quality time or whatever my needs are, I’m secure. If they aren’t, I’m not.
2024-11-30 18:00:02
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Julianna 💃🏻 :
I hadn’t had my attachment style examined and wondered if I was anxious/preocupied based on how my partner was treating me. Turned out after proper examination that I am indeed secure but the avoidance and traumatic symptoms of that renders me anxious. And so I try to become aware of it and go farther to recede and save myself when I feel the heart flux.
2024-12-01 01:26:35
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Lindsay Wilson :
I’ve seen them turn even the most securely attatched people I know anxious
2024-11-30 20:42:11
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user42698485135552 :
we dont realise the negative effects an avoidant person can hv on us.we can grow up with the most healthy love from our parents,the best childhood,&/1
2024-12-02 14:53:07
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Kaliharlz :
YES! I finally realized this. Weeks after he left I realized all the anxiety I had was gone. It's just not there anymore.. he had me convinced I needed meds to help my anxiety and thankfully I didn't.
2024-12-01 06:18:54
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Gg :
I always feel calm and at peace alone or with anything nature. It’s the moment I involve myself in someone else’s life that I become anxious because I’ve learned I’m not enough for patience & space.
2024-12-20 22:41:56
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Cortney :
People need to be more aware of their attachment style so they can work on it and or just be intentional when understanding their patterns and behaviors when it comes to relationships.
2024-12-01 08:19:22
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Baks Ali Punjwani :
OMG Layla! You need to bring that friend on podcast! She’s gold
2024-11-30 16:55:32
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🪷HANDMADE BLUEPRINT🪷 :
When I figured this out life got easier
2024-11-30 16:46:05
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luna🌛 :
Yep. The men I was with in the past were all avoidant and unable to recognize and acknowledge their behaviors
2024-11-30 17:16:45
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Justin :
This hits home cause I was never like this b4 in relationships. Iv’e always been calm, cool, and collective. People don’t realize that it’s their choices & actions that make people turn into this. 😔
2024-12-01 17:24:50
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Bashir Sultani :
sideffects of useing weed i thinking or drugs 😅😅😅😅😅😅
2024-11-30 18:51:08
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lovethyselfboo :
Gosh, I thought I was an anxious one, but I’m just matching your energy, but they hide it so well
2024-12-01 03:17:49
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sana :
omg feels like ur telling my last relationship 😳
2024-11-30 16:53:02
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CarlyJane :
You dont reallllllly know what attachment style someone has in the beginning tho bc they can seem to really open up and be very sensitive with their emotions. And then ur in love 😭
2024-12-01 15:07:14
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Sou🍀 :
This makes so much sense… but why are we attracted to avoidants, that’s also interesting to me. Being secure makes it easier to let go of an avoidant though
2025-01-05 11:43:36
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Naira | Fashion & Lifestyle :
Yes! Absolutely! Once you understand that everything makes sense afterwards
2024-12-01 09:56:05
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Redrum55 :
lovely lady and an insightful mind..always good tops
2024-11-30 16:52:31
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meganmichal :
wow this ....
2024-11-30 18:41:53
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Nooshin / Immigration Attorney :
I became so anxious during my marriage but didn’t realize it was bc of him.. when we divorced my anxiety suddenly swept off of me! Subconsciously he was causing me to be anxious and i didn’t realize
2024-12-01 03:20:12
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Jamie :
This!!!
2024-12-01 00:09:41
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Nelly :
yes!!!!
2024-11-30 19:03:46
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Lindsay Wilson :
You can’t trust that they’ll ever come back after you make a mistake. They might if you ask them to, but on their own accord they won’t and they’ll just let the relationship fade into nothing
2024-12-01 07:18:07
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Lacey Lane :
So true.. Starting to realize the same thing.
2024-12-01 04:49:28
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