@loriwheeler: When someone is constantly complaining, it interrupts the flow of your own energy. You are not responsible for taking on their stuff, but you do have to protect your own energy. often when people complain, they are not looking for solution nor do they wanna hear anything positive at that moment. Don’t offer solutions to someone who is not willing to hear them # . . . ##complaining##loriwheeler##protectyourpeace##boundaries
The best part of doing this is them saying you lack empathy. 🙄 I’ve given all the empathy and now I’m drained.
2024-12-01 15:45:16
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Yari 🖤 :
Me to me
2024-12-01 15:29:18
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Rivka 🦷 RDH :
Damn, should’ve said all this to the guy I was dating that I finally ended things with. He complained constantly. It was EXHAUSTING.
2024-12-01 20:16:51
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Jaimi Mattingly :
What about how to fix being the person who’s always negative and complaining 😅
2024-12-22 16:08:59
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Saba Riley 🦋 🍁 :
I've told my friends that if they need somone just to listen to them vent, I'm not that person. When you want to bounce solutions off someone, I'm your girl. Just gotta be honest about what I can do.
2024-12-30 16:02:15
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sassysue_69 :
Oooh fyp hitting real close today. This hit so hard I will struggle to recover. 😢
2024-12-03 04:25:18
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AnnabelleH734❌ :
Did this and they assumed I didn’t want to be friends anymore. How do I handle this?
2024-12-01 23:10:59
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SimplyMonet :
Where were you last month? 🫤 Thank u for this info.
2024-12-01 15:34:37
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tilly_not_matilda :
I’m saving this to tell myself all of this actually
2024-12-01 23:13:50
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user4238888590875 :
Omg I needed to see this. It’s been so frustrating
2024-12-02 01:17:44
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julesmeowingmowWDNCC :
please tell me how to respond to rude coworkers
2024-12-02 01:27:31
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aimlesslyscrollin :
I’m gonna say this to MYSELF!
2024-12-01 20:08:42
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Jennifer Curry-Bayer :
22 years a hair stylist and I’m mentally drained.
2024-12-02 02:09:54
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Angela Dawn Johnson :
What if it’s your husband
2024-12-03 14:48:26
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lisagcarpenter :
Thank you
2024-12-01 21:39:07
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Shannon is :
Soo good
2024-12-02 16:03:10
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Barbara :
I don't have space for negativity today. yes I will be using that at work
2024-12-13 18:13:22
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Sunshine4002 :
Then I’m the worst person ever
2024-12-02 05:40:46
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Alexandra..1628 :
Yes but I would say if it’s your child it’s different you are there safe space. My mom said things like this to me as a kid and she didn’t mean to harm but Iv struggled with feeling like I can’t have
2024-12-01 22:34:14
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Jamie :
this is so true! I've saved this to go back and listen again and again. I always get so flustered bc I'm so over it! this is my life
2024-12-01 21:54:23
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brynn good :
What if it’s in a restaurant
2024-12-02 00:19:31
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. :
This advice, just what I was looking for.
've got a friend, mostly contacts me to complain for 3h (on the phone). It literally drains me down. Now she contacts me again & I'm like no,no,no
2025-04-08 18:33:40
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Compton :
OK what about if it’s your wife, she was a ball of fun and go with the flow until our son was born
2025-03-26 13:51:40
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Denise Bond :
I finally had to end a friendship with someone who always complained. it was way too exhausting.
2024-12-02 14:23:22
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