@ashleiwithani: If you are a sheltered black girl let me know. Do I look like Casper? Yes. Am I going to keep getting better? Yes. #fyp #dating #blackwomen #oldestdaughter #oldestchild #millenialsoftiktok
I think the issue is you guys don’t become obsessed with yourself like if your gonna avoid men in your 20s you need not to play with yourself and I’m not just talking career wise
2024-12-03 13:47:38
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Serena :
and this is why when people say black woman are the least likely to get married, they don't truly understand what they are saying. most of us weren't raised to court, it's not that we are undesirable
2024-12-03 13:19:33
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Lauren :
I have those glasses too! You look fab!
2024-12-03 12:15:52
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glorygrl36 :
It’s a shame this happens to yall, it makes you guys to judgmental 😭
2024-12-02 20:53:53
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Love Moderne :
With love... your sheltered upbringing was more of a blessing than you realize. Most male daters are u serious and they stunt or ruin women's lives. You don't need to be embarrassed at all...
2024-12-02 11:30:45
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misslonelyisland :
Sheltered black girl to chronically single 🙋🏾♀️first bf at 20 😭😭
2024-12-02 02:27:47
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HelpImAlive :
This exactly. You grow up made to believe boys/men will ruin your life; and then you turn 30 and your family is wondering why you’re trying so hard to stay out of all that. Like, huh??
2024-12-02 00:11:03
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Kidkin🌻 :
this isn’t talked about enough we need a support group 🥲
2024-12-02 02:56:09
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Amanda Green :
I am seen … 🥺
2024-12-03 04:36:17
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naee :
Damn I’m relate so much. I’m turning 30 next year and I’m constantly fluctuating between wanting to get out there and being happy in my little bubble.
2024-12-02 01:17:53
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Sew_Love22 :
I can relate. I didn't date in high school, rarely in college. I would give the same excuse I'm focused on school and studying.
2024-12-02 00:05:53
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🌺 TamrynBavita 🌺 :
Same here! Chronically single, couldn’t wear makeup, couldn’t date, always had to sneak to hangout with friends. Never cultivated the “dating” skill.
2024-12-02 01:17:21
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réginerivière :
first bf at 23, still single at 40. burnt out, depressed, overweight, and just sick and tired of hearing "you'll find love one day"
2024-12-02 13:06:18
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Des/Ha’s wife :
Me! Chronically single 😭
2024-12-02 00:26:34
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Gbemisola Abiola :
I relate to this so much. Guys didn’t really check for me (I was “too high maintenance” and hated partying). The few that did? I didn’t know how to interact with them. I only go to work and church.
2024-12-02 00:47:53
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Kay :
Me. Chronically single. Never dated. Never hit any of those developmental milestones girls typically hit in middle &high school. Now in my 30s it just feels too late. Best of luck to you though.
2024-12-02 02:49:16
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