@drbeckyatgoodinside: Kids crave sturdy leadership: A parent who can recognize their emotions AND not get swept up in them. Our sturdiness is what makes them feel safe, what allows them to calm down, what helps them develop emotion regulation and resilience. In fact, I think we ALL crave sturdy leadership. It’s why I keep coming back to this pilot metaphor. I know have that sturdy pilot inside of you. One more thing: the more of us that come together, the more support we will have in changing the way we respond to kids (and to ourselves). Tag a friend, a family member, a partner here. This Good Inside movement isn’t “mine” - it’s ours, and I would truly love your help in making it even stronger.
Dr. Becky | Psychologist
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Tuesday 03 December 2024 16:03:29 GMT
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Brittany M. Colston :
Commenting to stay on Dr. Becky tok!!
2024-12-03 21:57:24
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Cherae :
Love this metaphor! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
2024-12-04 02:42:19
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Ashley B :
Powerful metaphor. Thank you for this.
2024-12-05 04:38:08
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Katie :
In Animorphs, Jake’s mom tells him it’s much easier to be an adult bc nothing is new anymore - she’s got the experience to handle everything, which kids don’t have. I think about that scene a lot.
2024-12-08 03:52:48
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Jill Dudzinski :
Omg this is such an insanely good analogy 😭🥰
2024-12-06 02:03:15
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Calif.Shell :
Fabulous analogy, thnk u🥰
2024-12-03 17:02:31
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Paige | Doctor, Wife, Momx5 :
Aww my Dad was a commercial airline pilot for 30+ years. He always said “it’s not what I do. It’s what I know how to do under pressure” 🥰
2024-12-31 20:26:34
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Alyeska :
or not saying anything at all 🤷🏼♀️hated not having info as a child/not knowing what was going on, made me so uneasy. still true today 😂 communication is key! kids understand more than ppl think
2024-12-30 18:39:29
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amym0612 :
Clearly I have so much to improve.
2024-12-31 05:45:16
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hikinglover6 :
Excellent. I will adopt as my own. lol. Thanks
2024-12-03 19:03:17
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Bailey - Norcal photographer :
Do you have favorite child development/psychology books that you recommend?
2024-12-03 20:49:49
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dianemomoftwo :
Wow!
2024-12-03 16:19:59
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Mariann | New Yorker :
Such a great metaphor, and needed to hear this today 🙏🏻
2025-01-02 20:06:42
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bollybaddiedancing :
the best
2024-12-04 12:05:51
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Joy 💕 :
💕 You are such a gift
2024-12-03 16:15:37
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🌟🍪📚✨Marissa H ✨📚🍪🌟 :
We need to teach them all the things and I think parents forget this. As a teacher- I am trying to make up for it- but it’s not enough. Model, teach and nourish your child’s curiosity. They need you.
2024-12-27 03:35:47
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Simply Sleepy :
I love this metaphor and find it very powerful!
2024-12-05 08:51:55
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Stef Anie :
I needed this
2024-12-04 10:16:58
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Nick Matiash | The Evolved Man :
Love this 👏🏼👏🏼
2024-12-24 03:45:33
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January :
Absolutely love the analogy!! 💙
2024-12-24 01:28:18
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Avrd :
Wow what a helpful analogy never thought of it this way 🙏🏻
2025-01-05 03:54:57
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Neo💎 :
wow
2025-01-03 09:07:43
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Chris CARESNONE The Babka 👑 :
whoa 💯
2025-01-02 04:23:08
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Stacy Ann :
Love this
2024-12-31 10:02:42
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blob :
So true..
2024-12-03 16:36:01
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