The biggest lesson I’ve learned in life is that I don’t have to be friends with everyone. I decide what influence I have in my life
2024-12-06 21:31:16
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30somethingMILF :
YESS selfish= you won’t give me what I want
2024-12-06 16:56:08
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iamkikisweets1 :
I went from being an over giver to not giving anything at all, and then I started implementing boundaries and I can still give♥️♥️
2024-12-08 12:52:21
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Audrey_Jaay :
As someone who genuinely enjoys giving…& always finds myself discouraged because of takers,this understanding has shifted my perspective for sure! Wow!!
2024-12-07 00:31:24
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sam :
You’ll be considered selfish when you stand on your boundaries ☺️(and as you should)
2024-12-06 20:10:52
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Jenny :
The people who call you selfish usually have never done anything for you before 😂
2024-12-13 21:19:04
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BrittanyMichelle~•~Newlywed’26 :
It’s really just an affirmation that your boundaries are boundarying ❤️
2024-12-06 23:23:09
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JanDenise :
Omg Jackie if you’re not speaking facts! As a giver I always attract takes ! Learning every day to be better at not giving to the wrong people .
2024-12-06 17:05:08
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likethem0nth :
People reacting to your boundaries means they are working.
2024-12-06 22:01:54
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WBabyW :
You are a wise beyond your years and Gorgeous.
2024-12-07 08:01:39
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🇨🇩Mimi K.🇳🇴 :
Maturing is realizing that I don’t give a faq about what people think anymore. If you know the true me, you know I’m not selfish. I just have boundaries 4 my peace that rubs people the wrong way.
2024-12-12 23:43:29
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Ha :
Ma’am are you ever coming to Abu Dhabi to have afternoon with me? I love you so much and proud of how far you came in life, you deserve the world 💘
2024-12-10 15:26:17
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iamjessie.b :
I love how you explained how I be feeling so well. This is it!
2024-12-17 08:08:47
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Fashion and Events :
Takers!! Some people just love taking and taking and giving nothing back 😠
2024-12-31 11:04:44
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AshGo :
Givers must have limits because takers have none
2024-12-09 03:13:50
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jay91827 :
I love these think pieces, bc this is exactly how I think of these things
2024-12-06 16:52:47
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LuvYanie :
Always consider the source and who it's coming from.. ✨️🔑
2024-12-07 20:13:20
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Korena Rebecca 🌺 :
Always consider the sourceeee!!
2024-12-06 17:21:43
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contemporary lobster :
Had a friend of 3 months, I paid for her expensive room in AC for her 40th & she threw a fit expecting me to pay for the entire vacay (I got laid off that week as she knew). Wish I was more selfish
2024-12-07 14:33:25
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KARI 🍫👑 :
Consider the source!! I Needed this video
2024-12-13 21:57:08
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Chidex :
Givers always attract takers! My mom also told me this years ago when I had a breakdown because 2 people that I thought were dear to me betrayed me. I blamed myself. I thank God for that betrayal now.
2024-12-06 23:47:52
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