@dustythunder_: The one with the new job... AITA for shaming my husband to get a higher paying job? #story #storytime #fyp #aita #reddit

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handletteredvibes
Handlettered Vibes :
Maybe he wasn’t choosing comfortability, maybe he was choosing to spend more time with his wife and kids.
2024-12-07 20:35:31
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cubanbabygrl
💫 BBW_CubanBabyBBYgrl💫 :
tells me she sees him as a paycheck and not a partner..
2024-12-07 20:33:13
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goldendars3000
Dawn :
She will always be miserable. She was unhappy, she complained out loud, he went out there and got the job she wanted and then she still unhappy.
2024-12-07 23:09:17
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angelamsalaiz
Angela M. Salaiz :
She told him what she wanted. He did what she wanted. And she still wasn't happy. 🤷‍♀️
2024-12-07 23:24:59
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thunder_punt
thunder_punt :
Did they talk before he changed jobs? Because like, we discuss all career moves BEFORE they are made. Perhaps her bitterness stems from being left out of the decision?
2024-12-07 21:10:04
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quiltykathy
QuiltyKathy :
I think the conversation should be that she had to go back to work full time so she was missing out on time with the kids. Discussions need to be had.
2024-12-07 21:15:46
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robbigger
Rob Bigger :
She wants to eat her cake and still have it. Insufferable.
2024-12-07 20:16:34
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rustyknight44
Josiah White :
Maybe he was successful at being comfortable?
2024-12-07 19:54:25
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michellejefferso10
Michelle Jefferson :
I don't feel like he didn't talk to her about getting the newest job because she told him and she is still jot happy. That man cannot win with her.
2024-12-07 20:08:44
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joann.butthead
Joann butthead :
my husband had to be medically retired because he has MS, which means he was a stay at home dad. I have earned more than him for decades but I have always appreciated him for everything he does
2024-12-08 18:39:27
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k4hli4nn4
Kahli :
who TF doesn't choose comfort when it's an option?!
2024-12-08 00:02:44
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dadiva18
Bridget Conway :
"ThE dIvOrCe CaMe OuT oF nOwHeRe"
2024-12-07 21:49:20
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grizzly1127
Grizzly :
She is what’s wrong with people. They are not happy for other peoples happiness
2024-12-07 20:19:13
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jasmine_kailynn93
Jasmine Brown :
Yes she should feel bad…he went and fixed the problem so what now is she going to complain that he’s not home
2024-12-07 20:43:00
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jodisherris
Jodi Sherris :
you can't have it both ways! to say what u said he did what he did, and now u don't like it either! not fair!
2024-12-07 20:58:14
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cnorman633
cnorman633 :
He might resent her for forcing him into a high stress job and have less time with the family.
2024-12-07 22:34:09
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natasiaarts
natasiaarts :
FAFO, OP. YTA. Good heavens
2024-12-07 23:25:00
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megloomis16
Megan 📚📖 :
everyone sux here, communication is the bed rock for a sturdy foundation
2024-12-08 16:05:20
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milouwho
Milouwho 🇨🇦 :
Does she have any idea how many women would kill to have a partner who defines success by being a good and present father
2024-12-09 19:46:08
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renellerenee
Renelle Renee :
I'm the unpopular opinion. I definitely understand how attraction can change when the workload is imbalanced. if i'm working harder, why aren't you, too?Communication before the job change was key.
2024-12-08 13:09:48
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chuck_2002
Chuck84 :
I'd rather make less money with good vacation and home with my kids vs.... more money and stress and never home.
2024-12-08 16:46:59
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cj.406
CJ.406 :
This is a communication issue on both parts 💯 … I was the bread winner for years and then wanted to be home with my kids- my husband and I sat down, had a convo and made it happen… both the AH
2024-12-08 22:43:18
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suebeedoo1969
Sue🇨🇦 :
I'm divorced and we have two kids. My ex still discusses a job change prior to making it if it'll affect me and our kids. Whether it be financially or how much time he'll be able to have the kids.
2024-12-09 02:41:49
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3funzzz
3121🔥 :
She’s not happy either way🙄
2024-12-09 01:38:03
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bossladydfk55
Bosslady55dfk :
YTA… you can’t have your cake & eat it too
2024-12-09 21:16:24
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