I teach my kids no adults needs a child's help. Therefor if one asks, they are being tricky. Even if it's a cop, a neighbor, etc. Also, to scream mom if scared as it will activate all women
2024-12-08 17:28:52
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Devon D-S :
How do we begin this conversation? Any serious convo we try to have with our 3yo will say “I don’t want to talk about this anymore,” because he gets uncomfortable
2024-12-07 22:01:14
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Elizabeth 💗🏳️🌈 :
I like this wording! thank you.
2024-12-09 02:25:11
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vanderthrift :
As a teacher I talk to kids about secrets. If a grown up is asking you to keep a secret from your caregiver, then it’s not a good secret. And then we discuss a surprise vs a secret. And I tell them
2024-12-09 14:15:01
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Mama11ama :
Yep we use “tricky adults” here too.
2024-12-08 00:45:56
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CWC 🇨🇦 :
We use Hans from frozen and the “mom” from tangled. They’re great references for convos like this and our 3yo understood right away
2024-12-09 15:58:02
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Dana Kayal 🇨🇦 :
that is a very brilliant way to frame that, thank you.
2024-12-07 22:49:08
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Nessie🌸 :
I like this take!!
2024-12-07 21:53:38
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Alex L :
When I was a kid, I thought “strangers” looked like the scarecrow from the Batman series haha
2024-12-08 00:36:59
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Lee Davies :
yep I call them tricky, so they seem kind at first but over time u feel unsafe or uncomfortable around them x
2024-12-07 23:31:02
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MTWSnaps :
My daughter thought for a long time that bag guys wear black and white striped shirts and that's how you could spot them.
2024-12-08 08:56:32
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Sara Beth :
We have a saying in my house “the worst kind of bad guy, is the one who pretends to be good”
2024-12-09 17:04:41
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Lauren LaGrega :
My son at age 6 thought all “bad guys” carried a bag with a $ symbol.
2024-12-08 20:05:33
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morgan :
You spoke to my inner child on this one. I wish I would have known this earlier to implement it with my kids.
2024-12-09 16:01:10
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Mikayla :
We had to watch a video on health class called Tricky People and it was honesty a fever dream but so important
2024-12-08 03:24:00
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shannonmarie2943 :
Gavin De Becker’s “Protecting The Gift” is great for a deep dive into this topic
2024-12-08 02:50:56
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Beccachino :
Tinkerbell and the pirate fairy. Excellent example for early introduction, also frozen but it’s got scarier parts and need longer attention to get there
2024-12-09 00:59:04
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JustPalaver :
We’ve been using the Other Mother in Coraline as our example.
2024-12-20 13:05:42
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Bobbi 🇨🇦 :
Yes!!! And teaching kids to be honest al all times, black and white thinkers think everyone is honest, you have to teach them that people lie!!
2025-01-21 00:31:37
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feffie :
This is a great tip! Thank you
2024-12-08 14:21:01
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Frankie Brandi & Copper :
This so so good! Because I feel like a lot of people keep good guys vs bad guys with them well into adulthood. Not understanding that “bad guys” are often tricky people
2024-12-08 13:15:22
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FW_Chic :
Oh that’s great!
2024-12-08 06:27:12
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Mylil72 🇩🇰 :
The people that want to do your children harm are so many fewer than those they just need to coexist with - where do the energy go?
2024-12-08 19:45:05
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Nikki :
I talked to my kids about this and I think I learned it on TikTok. 💛
2024-12-08 13:42:38
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2024-12-11 22:48:12
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