It’s so hard, but you have to set boundaries for yourself and your babies 🥹. You give him so much grace, and he’s not respecting you. I’m sorry 😭
2024-12-08 08:06:08
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Hi :
I think you should relinquish your guardianship or maybe even turn over guardianship to another family member who has no small children living in the household. Or sadly into CPS care…
2024-12-08 08:20:08
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Katlyn :
You need to get a lock for your bedroom! Maybe try a smart lock that scans your finger print so it’s easy to get in and out for you and your husband. Definitely need more boundaries :/
2024-12-08 08:10:16
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m00n_🌜🌞 :
I would not recommend cops. once they're involved there's no going back. I'm so sorry you guys are going thru this. sending a lot of love❤️
2024-12-08 08:31:59
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Elena :
Your responsibility is to take care of the family you created first & if he can’t respect that he’s gotta go.
2024-12-08 14:11:35
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Diana :
you know in your heart it’s time to let go. At this point is either continue this path or have a safe mental place for your kids and yourself. Remember this is not your fault, u didn’t fail him.
2024-12-08 08:29:42
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Lauren :
Maybe try the the juvenile redirection program? It’s in pinal county!
2024-12-08 15:23:27
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Elizabeth.J :
I would look into a scared straight program! I don’t think he’s too far gone that you can’t reel him back in!
2024-12-08 08:20:02
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Kelly.lml :
Grief and healing isn’t linear, for either of you. You’re doing your best.
2024-12-08 08:13:14
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BLKMOB3214 :
try see if the police have a tough love program were they go to the jail for something
2024-12-08 14:30:47
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Jamie :
Coming from someone who works in an office where we work with a lot of kiddos in the juvenile justice system, I would definitely look into a FINS case for him. This allows him to understand 1/
2024-12-08 10:15:23
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A :
I’m sorry girl :/ as big sisters sometimes we have put boundaries even if it’s hurts us
2024-12-08 08:00:26
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zeniadda :
Your so strong for dealing with all this being pregnant 🤎 I hope he realizes, and takes accountability and changes ❤️🩹
2024-12-08 07:57:20
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Gelatina :
He doesn’t appreciate you or at least have the life experience to do so. Take the steps to relinquish guardianship. As an eldest sister, the more you help them, the more you enable their bad behavior.
2024-12-08 14:12:03
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Hillary :
I just wanna give you a hug 😩 I’m so sorry Dallas.
2024-12-08 14:37:16
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Chanal Francis :
My heart goes to out to u because u pregnant and this is so difficult and have ur sister and kids to look after i jus pray this get easier 4 u
2024-12-08 08:07:52
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Brit 💕 :
my brother was like this & his mom did send him away to a military type school when we were teens. he was worse when he got back & had freedom again. unfortunately he passed at 21 from an overdose. 🥺
2024-12-08 19:56:18
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krystal :
I think a military school or the camps for kids with behavioral issues. I think giving up your guardianship would just have him feel that another person abandoned him.I can’t imagine having no one1/2
2024-12-08 16:39:49
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Shana Wade :
You may have talked about before I’m not sure but we had to send our daughter to a group home for teens under 18 that aren’t doing well they still have privileges but are made to earn their levels
2024-12-08 08:11:22
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☾ ︀˙︀ 𝚜𝚠𝚎𝚎𝚝 ˙☽ :
Look into mentors
2024-12-08 08:05:17
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Sara Cipley :
I know you don't wanna go the more strict route of calling the cops or military school but doing that isn't giving up on him, sometimes that's what's needed. Everyone's rock bottom is diff & you have
2024-12-08 16:23:51
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ItsPENNY :
Your kids and family YOU created comes first. You know what needs to be done 🥺
2024-12-09 11:52:46
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Ang❤️ :
He’s definitely going through something a lot deeper I was a troubled teenager I know it’s hard to deal with but don’t give up on him ♥️he will have a breakthrough
2024-12-08 13:50:13
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