@josieconely: What is something someone said that hurt you while dealing with fresh loss?

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maarrriiiiiaaaaaa
maria :
Or when someone’s child passes and they wrote “I’m hUgGiNg My bAby aLiTtLe TiGhTeR tOniGht”
2024-12-09 16:50:31
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breannaselb
Breanna Selby :
i was in labor with our daughter & the nurse asks “where’s dad?” i tell her he passed and she said “everything happens for a reason… like girl are you serious rn
2024-12-09 01:07:04
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missfreyaparker
Freya Parker :
Reading the comments made me realize I don’t know how to speak to people when they’ve lost a loved one. Yall… it’s not intentional.
2024-12-09 08:03:26
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lexismcc1
Alexis :
My dad died in a motorcycle accident and someone said “and that’s why you should wear a helmet”
2024-12-09 03:13:52
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avawesss
avawesss :
“i’d never be able to live without my mom” thanks i barely even am
2024-12-09 13:48:03
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winglessdeities
keybi :
these comments are approving my decision to be as quiet as possible when people are grieving bc I really don't know the appropriate things to say lol
2024-12-09 14:04:08
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babeonthegogo
Babeonthegogo :
Sometimes people are just trying to help and do t know what to say
2024-12-09 12:36:11
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l0venichole
kait <3 :
“they are in a better place now” I don’t care WHERE they are, I want them here with me. 🧍🏻‍♀️
2024-12-09 17:05:24
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stevie.ana
stevie aña 🫶🏻 :
“i’ll hug my babies extra tight for you” wow thank you so much, wish i could hug mine!
2024-12-09 10:54:31
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poolbbn
Pool Bbn :
Very rarely do people have the right things to say
2024-12-09 07:10:10
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p224254
p :
As someone who’s had a lot of people die, I actually like this one. I like that people are thinking about the deceased person and how they felt, instead of just how the death impacts them personally.
2024-12-09 16:19:45
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sabific
Sab :
“Wow, that’s my worst fear! I could never imagine losing my sibling/parent/partner” It’s like… thanks! I know :) it’s my life!
2024-12-08 23:43:21
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wayyyoutofpocket
wayyyoutofpocket :
What’s the right thing to say
2024-12-09 18:41:54
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m.adi.k.ay
kay 🩶 :
these comments are affirming my decision to always keep it at “i’m so sorry for your loss, i’ll be praying for you” and that is it.
2024-12-09 21:15:37
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elleniii_laz
elleni laza :
I know it doesn’t seem like a good response but they’re showing empathy, they’re showing they’re really feeling for that person and acknowledging it
2024-12-09 04:12:22
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evelinaaamot
Evelina :
My aunt said “thank God it wasn’t one of my kids “ when my brother died, her sisters son mind you. It’s been over 5 years and I still remember her face and what she was wearing
2024-12-09 14:08:05
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silyconeangel
Yr mom :
I lost someone to drowning and this is the thing that messes me up most about it. I'm sorry people felt the need to remind you of that.
2024-12-09 03:49:50
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uniquelychosenboutique
Stephanie | Uniquely Chosen :
Girl, my brother passed away and MY PASTOR told me: I don’t think he’s going to heaven 😩 and that I should stop crying bc I was giving space to the enemy 🥲 I left that church the next day 🙅🏻‍♀️
2024-12-08 23:53:11
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netaspetas
netaspetas :
I’m so confused
2024-12-09 17:10:50
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meghantol16
meghan :
I’ve also gotten a few of the “she must have been scared” like yes. She was. And I’ve thought about it every single day since and it makes my stomach turn I neeever need a reminder
2024-12-09 03:13:32
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destinyspellins1
Destiny Spellins :
My friends LOVE to hit me with “idk how you survive losing your parents I couldn’t handle it” which really feels like they’re invalidating the depths of my ache and saying theirs would be deeper
2024-12-09 15:19:33
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isla_emma_
isla_emma_ :
At my grandmas funeral someone told me “oh she won’t be there to see u graduate” like oh thx!
2024-12-09 04:37:59
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miagrimes
mia :
i never understood why people say that
2024-12-09 01:46:13
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nicholemaree24
nichole 🦋 :
i also hated when people told me to be strong after my mom died, made me feel pressured to put a strong front up when i felt the opposite
2024-12-09 14:40:53
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