@tessdear: I should have mentioned that an engagement and or kids very well COULD be what she wants but I was more trying to make the point of “we don’t know and it’s none of our business so we should just hope people are happy”. I apologize that I rambled and was all over the place so I am sorry that the intent of my rant/lecture/whatever was misunderstood by many.
It's like people skipped over lavendar haze and midnight rain. And the thumbs down about I'm having his baby.
2024-12-09 23:23:41
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V :
So how is this controversial? I’m really lost. All I got was let’s hope they’re happy however that may be.
2024-12-09 19:56:05
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Megan Collins • Author :
The intent was clear to me, Tess. ❤️
2024-12-09 19:51:28
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Allycat :
As someone who has parents that have been PUSHING me to get married/have babies for years & drives me nuts, I totally understood what you were trying to say 💜💜💜
2024-12-09 19:54:20
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S. Collins :
It's like not even being the most successful woman in the industry is enough to validate from people who have been conditioned that a woman's worth is having a family
2024-12-09 20:38:47
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erin :
as a single woman in my late 20s, this message right here is needed more 💗 i’m tired of my relationship status being people’s meter of how happy I am
2024-12-09 19:53:05
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Imke Wiemann :
People forget that there are barely in a relationship for a year and she was on tour the whole time . Let them settle and get to know each other more
2024-12-09 20:00:24
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OverFiftySwifty :
Yes Tess! We need to normalize not wishing specific traditional hopes on other people. Wish them their best life, whatever that is!!
2024-12-09 19:55:21
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LaurenCapturesClay :
I don’t think you said anything wrong. Why did people get mad?? What. Exactly it’s none of our business it’s whatever makes her happy
2024-12-09 20:08:27
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Caitlin :
I don’t know why people are obsessed with her resigning to just be ordinary! Let the Woman be extraordinary for as long as she wants, that’s why we love her!
2024-12-09 20:13:25
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Allison Rose :
Yesss!!! because what if they can’t have kids or even want them!
2024-12-09 19:59:38
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BankGold :
100% correct take
2024-12-09 20:04:10
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Shannon :
If they want marriage and babies, fantastic, happy for them. If not, fantastic, happy for them. It is NONE of our business!! Let them be omg
2024-12-09 20:10:32
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Courtney(Taylor’s Version) :
Idk why people are making you feel like you need to apologize. You are absolutely right.
2024-12-09 20:38:57
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kathleen :
Anyone who’s gotten similar questions/comments from family knows how those well meaning comments can hurt or fell intrusive. Can’t imagine having to hear it from the public masses
2024-12-09 20:02:06
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janetjinx :
this is not disrespectful or controversial at all i cannot believe people are trying to cancel her for this. she was actually incredibly polite and put her point across perfectly
2024-12-09 22:20:12
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nataliemcf94 :
Exactly, I've had 7 miscarriages and hate this assumption ❤️
2024-12-09 20:45:49
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Jacob :
I agree. You spoke very well on this. I wish them the best but it’s also none of our business
2024-12-09 19:57:28
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☆ :
Tess you always have a great opinion ❤️
2024-12-09 19:50:25
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Nic𝟏𝟑⸆⸉ :
The message was 100% clear. Thanx from germany❤️
2024-12-09 20:08:13
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GracieLou ⓣⓢ ☘️📚 :
completely valid ❤️❤️❤️
2024-12-09 19:57:25
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Sorchanata🇨🇦 :
Exactly!! We need to respect their privacy and their boundaries.
2024-12-09 21:02:07
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🌸.charlie.944🐝 :
It wasn’t confusing, people are just wanting to pick at things. You did explain it clearly and you were right 💕
2024-12-09 20:00:09
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MandyMKay🖤 :
💯 ik that feeling too well. it gets annoying. happiness is all that matters.
2024-12-09 20:03:38
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