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I always tell my daughter “your feelings are valid, your actions are not. When you’re ready to calm down, we can talk about why you’re not getting your way”
2024-12-11 14:21:41
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Knox :
I was told “stop crying or I’ll give you something to cry about”
2024-12-13 22:23:59
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Joey Leutzinger :
I was raised with “no, cuz I said so” lol
2024-12-12 00:49:26
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•Chronically•Jade• :
You can be unhappy or upset but you cannot be unkind
2024-12-16 02:40:33
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Zandy_roberts :
We say “if you cant except No as an answer don’t ask the question” I agree with this post 100%
2024-12-12 22:02:28
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WalkingOnSunshine :
okay but my kid is 18 months and doesn't understand reason
2024-12-14 01:58:52
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nifftyshiffty :
you don't have to be "happy' with a no, you just have to not act a fool with a no.
2024-12-13 20:11:07
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rebelyeast :
I was told “you get what you get and you don’t throw a fit”
2024-12-13 19:11:58
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For.Tris0521 :
Getting told “no” every time I asked for something turned me into a child who never asked for anything. Because “why try when I know what they will say?”
2024-12-13 15:18:37
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Kiara Rodriguez :
It gets me mad when I say no to him to a certain toy/snack he wants and here comes who ever is around us and gives it to him just bc of the tantrum. like i clearly said no and they just make it worse
2024-12-13 00:25:08
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Lauren | 🌲🍯🐝 :
I don’t give in to the tantrum but I do console their emotions. The emotions are valid, its okay to be disappointed or upset but that doesn’t mean the outcome changes. This approach supresses emotions
2024-12-16 00:42:28
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Katie | SAHM | Coach :
Im more stubborn than my kids so🫡
2024-12-12 02:14:14
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margaretmayo :
As a kindergarten teacher, I approve this message. 👏
2025-01-22 18:26:21
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canuck0202 :
👏yep no isnt a bad thing. so many adults and kids haven't been told no and it shows
2024-12-12 13:50:10
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Amanda Renee :
The first time I threw a tantrum in the store my mom walked away from me and I stopped and followed her.
2025-01-27 22:27:02
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pdhalacim :
“You’re allowed to be angry, you’re not allowed to be mean”
2025-01-17 09:27:18
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Thedimarziofam :
My son does so much better when I hug him when he’s mad or upset. The pressure from the hug allows him to regulate himself and we do talk about how he’s allowed to be mad but he’s not allowed to hit..
2024-12-16 16:31:29
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Maria :
That’s some good applied behavior analysis right there.
2024-12-11 14:36:45
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_joshiieme :
I’ve never experienced a tantrum that’s over the top, I get the little whining. like I’m always shocked when I see it from other kids. It’s lack of discipline
2024-12-15 11:43:52
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Poppa Donna :
Life gives you way more "No's" than "Yes'"
2024-12-14 02:06:34
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Jazmine :
Send this to my grandma who single handedly is cause all my toddlers tantrums
2024-12-11 17:55:42
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mama_makes_sourdough :
I don’t know how I feel about the “just changing your mind on a whim” our kids look forward to the movie. I 100% agree with the sentiment. But just saying no because you feel like it? Idk.
2024-12-14 06:06:31
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Jay :
today my 3yo daughter asked for an object and I said no, and she goes "ok, mommy"
2024-12-12 01:38:33
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