@dr.alinakastner: Why are narcissists notorious for ruining the holidays? Because the holiday season takes any focus and attention away from them, and they can’t stand it. Whether it’s through creating drama, negativity, or control tactics, their goal is to draw attention back to themselves no matter how they do it, even if it means ruining it for everyone else. #narcissist #narcissism #NPD #narcissisticpartner #narcissisticparent #narcissisticfamilymember #narc #narcissiticabuse #narcsduringtheholidays #therapist #therapy #psychologist #psychotherapist #couplestherapist #familytherapist #dralinakastner #alinakastner

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respectfulallie
RespectfAllie 🧁 :
I don’t think it’s the attention they want. I think they just want to keep you from being happy.
2024-12-13 20:34:53
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wetbandit
Master :
But ultimately, they are never happy! That’s where we win
2024-12-15 20:52:51
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heidilove2021
Heidilove2021 :
It’s all about control!!!
2024-12-20 10:17:41
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_tripseven777
Tripseven777 :
Agreed. Every holiday/birthday/graduation/wedding/recital/school play. Any special occasion or milestone
2024-12-13 21:29:28
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inletlady707
Inlet Lady :
I think they’re unhappy and if they can steal your happiness away and drag you into the pits, it’s a reward for them.
2024-12-14 14:39:54
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hearrior
Hearrior :
💯 true
2024-12-12 00:16:08
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christinefearn329
Chrissie Fearn :
so very true!!
2024-12-13 15:30:19
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mariestrickland93
mariestrickland93 :
Mine always ruined Christmas, birthdays, Valentine’s Day, Mother’s Day. No gifts from my husband what’s so ever. So, I quit worrying about it and would just gift my kids and grandkids.
2024-12-20 16:37:42
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julezincognito
Julezincognito :
3 hour drive for a 4 day Christmas trip cut short by 2 days because he can't stand me being happy.
2024-12-16 04:36:07
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sweetsourlilmama
Jessy :
they say it's just another day that I need to chill 🙄
2024-12-20 06:27:02
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clhenry1967
Christy :
My ex was jealous of my love of God. Seriously.
2024-12-20 09:17:26
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leonaurora088
Leonaurora088 :
my child's bday parties were destroyed by the narcissist's immature behavior, embarrassing me in front of my friends and family 😎🖤
2024-12-11 22:37:50
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tara_bullz
🌴ara :
My mother. 🙄
2024-12-24 17:06:22
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chashalane
LiminalCore :
I am remembering dad came to my birthday uninvited. Everyone went silent and he ruined the party with swear words. I had to stay humble and not exist in my own party.
2024-12-15 14:35:59
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iconicchronictonic
Iconic Chronic Tonic :
My mother’s favourite holiday tradition!
2024-12-24 21:06:05
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user6885432456
user35674338 :
One time he grabbed the Christmas tree and threw it down. I never decorated anything for Christmas again after that.
2024-12-14 13:26:56
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tml2282
TML :
Over 20 years he has destroyed 14 occasions including fathers and mothers days and birthdays finally this year we have Christmas just me and my girls we can actually celebrate without fear
2024-12-22 08:38:31
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donnakolb1
Donna Kolb :
Yes he's done this for 13yrs
2024-12-14 03:35:13
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bonka4747
Bonka4747 :
My daughter’s Mother in Law, not this year. We r not going to the party, we are getting massages!
2024-12-22 19:06:50
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derricanicole
DerricaNicole✞ :
I’ve had 7 Christmas ruined, this year I decided no more!
2024-12-15 06:55:03
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carolallencontrer
Curliegirl Carol :
This explains much
2024-12-20 03:05:43
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elm77marks
elm77marks :
I recently filed for divorce. Christmas 2023 was the last for me!!!!
2024-12-20 03:58:57
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bettywhite630
Betty White :
Celebrating 3 years free from my narcissistic MIL
2024-12-18 19:33:08
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kimcaswell01
kimcaswell01❌ :
Every single time
2024-12-16 03:25:27
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heatherslagle28
heatherslagle28 :
Mine did for 10 years
2024-12-14 02:33:22
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