And then the trauma and bad coping mechanisms hit and they self sabatoge a beautiful, healthy relationship and leave someone questioning their entire worth
2024-12-13 22:34:17
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JackieMarie :
Wdym I don’t have to walk on eggshells? Wdym I can ask you to do something and you just do it?
2024-12-14 00:14:06
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RadRad :
My fiance took my car to the car wash, filled my tank, filled my washer fluid and bought me breakfast this morning just because I "deserved it". 😭😭
2025-01-29 18:09:26
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Amy :
last week I accidentally broke a new glass bottle of wine my bf brought. I instantly froze thinking he was going to lash at me or hit me.He instantly told me it was okay and it wasn't a problem--
2024-12-14 14:31:06
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mj :
wdym we can communicate calmly and rationally without fear that you’re going to cut me off?
2024-12-14 06:20:27
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zoe_.papag :
wdym i can tell you how im feeling and you wont be mad?
2024-12-14 06:04:32
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zoe ⊬ :
and they expect nothing in return?!?????
2024-12-14 17:43:00
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sil :
my friend came out of a toxic relationship a few years back. recently she found a guy who was so nice to her. but over time her gut feeling told her it wouldn't work. she is scared it was because she-
2024-12-15 11:43:47
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cherry :
Honestly when people say relationships/marriage is hard work this is what I think of. unpacking and healing trauma is rough. rewiring your brain to believe you're now safe and loved is so hard:(
2024-12-14 09:06:22
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*+ KITTEA +* :
What do you mean it was this easy to love and be loved all this time
2024-12-15 00:58:20
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Tula Tuilani :
my parents made me build walls but you made me wanna build windows and doors and cover the ceiling with glowing stars
2024-12-14 19:03:15
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Rachel :
Like wow my feelings actually get validated?
2024-12-14 02:38:02
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Kate :
He tells me all the time “I know it’s not normal for you but let’s make this a new normal for you even if it’s not just with me” 😭
2024-12-14 04:28:27
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𓆑 :
This and then you realize you’ve got a lot of unresolved issues from past relationships that u need to solve to be good to them
2024-12-14 03:58:32
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kenny ° ᡣ𐭩 . ° . :
wdym you won’t ignore me for hours? wdym you won’t kick me off games for being bad? wdym you won’t get mad at me for needing mental breaks?
2024-12-14 10:52:48
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Niyma :
I'm so terrified of being vulnerable or ask for the things I need, because it used to be used against me later on
2024-12-15 18:47:56
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Queenie :
Realizing it’s okay to sleep in and nobody will yell at me or call me lazy for it is such a weird feeling
2024-12-15 12:22:30
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micah 🌸🥀 :
what do you mean shes scared of losing me and not scared of loving me? what do you mean??
2024-12-14 05:48:07
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dishie :
she was my "wdym" but then she left. i've never been more shattered
2024-12-13 22:53:41
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Jake :
your brain is used to responding a certain way in similar situations, but bc the reactions are safe you don't need to respond in defense anymore which can be confusing. Your brain will have to undergo
2024-12-14 13:48:05
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Luci :
I finally after 5 yrs have gotten rid of most of my anxiety within the relationship. but if a disagreement comes up, I still don't know how to handle it properly because I only have bad experiences
2024-12-14 15:51:29
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Meagan Leah :
wdym you won't yell at me? wdym you call first and actually and talk to me? wdym you miss me and mean it?
2024-12-14 02:40:31
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Ella ✨ :
This is weird for me cuz I spent so long in an incredible relationship and my own brain made it toxic so I chose to leave him, months later I’m with someone new who treats me just as nicely idk why?
2024-12-14 22:49:31
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hsp5ever :
I met my partner two years ago and have since stopped hanging out with a lot of people bc he’s made me realise “ohhhh this is how I’m supposed to be treated, with kindness”
2024-12-13 23:50:01
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