the.healing.eras
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☆starsaroundmyscars☆ :
I was parentified while simultaneously being treated like I was incompetent if I had a need or opinion
2024-12-13 18:45:06
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user5498816728609 :
I was emotionally parentified. I also dealt with my own problems alone and tried to keep them secret, starting around 11, bc I noticed my parents would handle things way worse than I would
2024-12-14 02:22:51
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treluna :
Yup. Me. Reporting for duty. 🫡
2024-12-16 13:26:18
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Ryann :
My mom: You were just such a beacon! Me: Even lighthouses need keepers! No one kept me and my light is going out.
2024-12-13 16:27:12
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Onyx&Oliver :
that grow up having autoimmune issues
2024-12-14 17:42:28
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Brittany W :
We grow up to have auto immune diseases
2024-12-16 01:18:46
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-_- :
yea… i was my parents marrige counselor, and my moms sounding board starting around age 7. I had to take care of all my own problems so that i could also take care of their problems
2024-12-16 05:15:22
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Sophia Martinez Smith :
Asking my parents for favors/help is an emotional minefield
2024-12-14 16:01:14
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tabaxiranger :
I was the invisible child to the point that my genetic disability was ignored until my health crashed at 32. I now have a lot of physical care needs, and when I asked my mom for even emotional support
2024-12-16 04:13:36
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Abbey Worlton :
If I had a dollar for every time an adult told me I was wise beyond my years I would be so rich right now. Or “I never had to worry about you” ugh.
2024-12-14 03:58:54
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Megan :
yeahhh when my mom passed, essentially anything done to heal everyone was my doing. If I hadn’t pushed my dad to get my siblings therapy, I honestly don’t know if they’d still be around.
2024-12-15 14:33:11
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implosionx100 :
It's almost worse when you're not doing any physical responsibilities because then nobody wants to admit any emotional ones got placed on you
2024-12-15 23:49:19
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greyismymood :
And the one time I did ask for help, they made excuses
2024-12-13 14:53:23
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Cozy.Coastal.Living :
Sounds like every Gen-X latchkey kid of the 80’s. But seriously, yes, I’m that adult today.
2024-12-13 15:02:50
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nat :
I'm so tired of being seen as "practical" because HE chooses to be "fun"
2024-12-16 11:02:07
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Persephon38 :
And it’s still happening .. it’s so weird especially as they get older and need lots of help still
2024-12-15 21:48:02
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krishtappp :
Having a midlife crisis at 32 🥰 I’m like a “get off my lawn” grandpa now
2024-12-14 02:35:49
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Kez 🌼 :
My mom today was like “you always lied as a kid because you told me what you thought i wanted to hear” and i was like !!!!!! lets explore why i never felt it was safe to tell the truth
2024-12-16 02:57:24
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Theresa Chatelain Sa :
Yep. Me. No need to worry about me... My mom actually said that to me. Middle child. Invisible. All the yep.
2024-12-14 18:45:33
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Melanie W :
and this is why I doubt I will ever break NC
2024-12-13 15:58:43
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Crow :
my parents constantly made jokes about having kids only to do chores and talk about how i was so independent and quiet that i would just stay in my room by myself for hours... as if thats a good thing
2024-12-16 16:09:08
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cmayta :
Hi, it was me. To a tee. Working through it with therapy and meds. It ain’t easy
2024-12-16 17:05:46
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sara_france11 :
My grandmother had an emergency, couldn’t reach my mom, automatically reached out to me. Not one of her other kids. She laughed about it later.
2024-12-15 22:51:04
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Carorororo :
I completely coordinated myself from 5k on. Woke myself up, made my breakfast, packed lunch, got myself ready, did my homework, showered and put myself to bed. Never expressed my needs or problems.
2024-12-15 19:14:18
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My Act Four :
Yep
2024-12-13 16:01:00
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