U explained this really well. I’ve been very self reflective and introspective this year, I thought that I was adhd since I was 17, and the last year or so, the more I research and study classes, and introspect, and pay attention to my communication style, the way that I think, that way that I process emotions and information, the things I am interested, HOW im interested in t things, why, the patterns of these things, etc. im starting to believe that I might be on the spectrum.
2025-07-12 20:47:12
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Pleasant Fiction :
My pattern recognition is often seen as me keeping a mental tally of wrongdoings or transgressions. I just don’t see how they can’t see we are having the same conversation/arguments over and over
2024-12-15 16:27:21
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Wilco van Rossum :
whats the peep sound in the background? its going on the whole video, preventing me to absorb all info 😂 watching it for the 5th time🤨
2025-02-20 07:07:15
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huytongirl :
"If I explain myself thoroughly, I will be understood and everything will be fine." Took me years to realise that's not so..I still find myself doing it.
2024-12-17 23:55:33
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ScottT5X🇨🇦 :
Context is key….I need context almost as much as I need oxygen.
2024-12-15 18:09:30
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felonygriffiththesequel :
My urge to send this so there is more context
2024-12-16 03:48:07
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Luis Serra #1 Fan :
this has never been this perfectly articulated before. thank you, I'm going to use this video to explain things to people in the future.
2025-02-14 11:31:10
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ToxicWubs :
used to deal with this issue, constantly my ex would be leaving out details or context and then fight would get worse until i finally got the missing details out of them.
2025-02-05 14:06:06
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whatifthistimeidontquit :
I will never understand people saying mean things then saying "I didn't mean it I was just mad?". I don't understand why you would say things you don't mean? that makes no sense !!!!
2025-08-06 17:14:15
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Soniajedi :
Yes !! They think I’m arguing or trying to ‘trick’ them cos I am confused when they say one thing then something different or it doesn’t make sense. I have to understand for my brain to stop thinking
2024-12-17 14:16:08
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Morgan Cauch :
I lost a 16 year friendship to this. She decided one day I was manipulative and trying to talk my way out of being “in trouble.” But why would I be in trouble when I mean well? Context will explain.
2024-12-15 19:10:22
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ThylhaBandz :
This is me
2025-02-02 03:05:38
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Wynn :
well this is very much me. you did leave out that we do not have emotional investment in the details/patterns ... its data or facts ... keeping data isn't keeping judgement
2024-12-15 19:42:42
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Phoenixx :
Genuinely thank you from the bottom of my heart for this, I always thought I was just doing things wrong when explaining how it’s basically the same argument as before or how the pattern is the same
2024-12-19 17:01:02
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bumbelina :
Wait. Is this why I have always relied on metaphors to explain something? Like all the time, since forever. Is it common
2024-12-15 20:57:28
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user2174981495936 :
I'm starting to feel more and more that I might be autistic, as well as adhd...
2024-12-17 11:22:02
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milihn :
"Stop giving excuses, I want the reason. Not excuses". These words shattered me in a meeting and my head silently screamed "By definition the difference between the two is intent".
2024-12-15 22:57:29
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Jak Xenon 🏳️🌈 :
it's like I'm speaking a different language. I say something like- I explained "this" to you and you misunderstood based on something I did not say. I didn't mean that or say that so it's not relevant
2024-12-16 01:32:09
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Nay408💋 :
I always get labeled as reactive or sensitive and that ends up making me mad even if I wasn’t mad I’m just trying to understand the bigger picture 😩
2024-12-15 17:19:50
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maryficorella310 :
I need serious help with this. As the holistic one, it seems that everything revolves are HER and HER feelings and comes off like she could care less about mine.
2024-12-16 16:08:23
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gardenvarietybrat🍃🪴🌱🍯🌿 :
Even understanding that this is due to differences in how we see things...why should things be dictated by the way one party feels? The standard for acceptable behavior is the same even if 1/2
2024-12-19 18:55:20
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Unicorn PC :
ChatGPT helps, she types into it what she wants to say then tells it to say it to someone without emotions in it (I don’t know her exact prompt) and it gives a clear to the point set of information.
2024-12-16 02:06:20
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Marsh :
I think where it breaks down even between audhds is that deciding upon a solution or resolution of a disagreement isn't the same as breaking the patten that we've been unknowingly acting on
2024-12-16 00:48:02
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Sarah :
I feel like you should promote your IG. You have been so helpful to me and I'm sure many others. I would hate for people to lose your content come the ban.
2024-12-15 16:47:06
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