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I couldn’t fathom not giving my parents or in-laws gifts… they help us with our 3 kids so much. We don’t get for aunts/uncles other adults but I feel like grandparents deserve their own.
2024-12-16 11:41:41
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NayOhMeee :
💯 so annoyed my fam wouldn’t agree to picking 1 name out of a hat and having a set 💲. Adults can buy their own things. We shouldn’t be buying for adults anymore in this economy. My kid comes first
2024-12-16 11:24:41
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Mountainmamma7 :
YES!!!!!!!! I do not buy for adults anymore. I can barely buy groceries. I focus on my children only. And I agree I’m exhausted!
2024-12-16 11:40:19
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Kristine ✨️ :
I feel like this is going to be an unpopular opinion. Unless you are saying you don't expect gifts in return for the toddler either.
2024-12-16 11:08:22
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Ash Lyn :
I stopped buying for adults a few years ago 🤷🏼♀️
2024-12-16 11:23:27
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Lindsey :
My family doesn’t buy gifts for adults. We do a white elephant with an agreed upon spending limit. White elephant over secret Santa takes away the stress of picking something personal
2024-12-16 11:35:32
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Big Sky Steno :
100%. Grandparents get a framed photo of grandchildren. My mom said that’s all she wants. And she appreciates that we print it out bc she doesn’t know how to do all that stuff😂
2024-12-16 15:15:11
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Britt :
We only gift our kids and that’s it. Family gets pictures and handmade cards. I did get my two MILs something small this year but usually I don’t.
2024-12-16 10:24:50
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Patricia Mia🇵🇪 :
Unpopular opinion I don’t want a picture of your kid and this is coming from a mom. I give people gifts on Christmas because they are my village and they help me take care of my kid throughout the yr
2024-12-16 14:21:53
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Lexi :
We buy for everyone in the family. I wouldn’t exclude anyone.
2024-12-16 13:39:59
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Elle :
Gifts come from the heart so if you don’t want to buy gifts don’t. Every family is different
2024-12-16 11:46:14
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Jenner171922 :
I think it is important for young kids to learn about giving thins time of year. I grew up having a jingle with my cousins and it only added to my excitement every Christmas.
2024-12-16 11:24:07
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Doodoodoo :
Two of my kiddos also have December birthdays. This is the first year where I said I’m not buying for anyone but my 3 and nephew. If an adult is getting from us it’s school pictures of the kids framed
2024-12-16 10:40:23
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Audrey Convery :
why are grown adult expecting gifts period!? we’ve lost the reason for the season yall. i love my family, but it gets to a point of “ive given all my money, time, and energy this holiday season”
2024-12-16 11:15:30
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Jami :
I have no kids 9 nieces/nephews 3 siblings and there spouses and we always make Christmas magical for everyone that joins the family. We all get each other stuff we just shop together.
2024-12-16 11:41:15
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jesskymomof4 :
I get a gift for my mom and then my grandparents get a custom calendar each year of all the grand and great grand kids and we make everyone cookies. My priority is my kids at Christmas.
2024-12-16 20:05:34
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Stephanie.Rose :
We have 5 kids. I would love to not have to worry about getting my mom gifts, but I feel bad because she spoils my kids and gets me and my husband things. So I feel the need to.
2024-12-17 01:37:32
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AmandaOlvera🇲🇽 :
iv got 2 kids and we really only do the kids we have 6 plus my brothers step kids make 10 plus my cousins little girl so we are only doing kids this yr
2024-12-16 07:08:35
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nokorilation :
We make a ton of cookies and everyone gets a little gift box with mixed homemade cookies. Much cheaper and the kids have fun helping 🥰
2024-12-16 13:42:42
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MELANIE JANSEN :
I told my daughter all I wanted for Christmas was my grand daughter to draw a picture or a photo of her. That is all. I asked them to use their money on themselves.
2024-12-16 13:31:53
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K.B. :
fully agreed. I have a 4yo, 2yo, & a 9 week old. I have to think about, but, & wrap gifts for like 20+ people. shit they probably don't need or really want anyway. Just let me sit it out for a few yrs
2024-12-16 13:29:50
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kmk :
And for those of us that can't have kids? So I get to spend hundreds if not thousands on gifts throughout the year but, because I'm an adult with no children, I get nothing? lmao Nah.
2024-12-16 11:48:17
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Jessica :
Why isn’t your spouse helping in all of this?!? None the less, we do it by planning, time management, and budgeting. The holidays are the same time every year!
2024-12-22 05:22:13
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krisu :
I purchase gifts throughout the year and spread it out. Much easier on the mental load of holidays.
2024-12-17 23:12:23
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justjennpin :
We have 5 kids, both work full time, we do all the Christmas things like elf on the shelf, go see Santa, go to universal and I still buy for everyone that’s important to us. Gifts come from your ❤️
2024-12-29 20:33:40
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