@nd_psych: Giftedness & the double empathy problem is weirdly difficult to tackle #neurodivergent #giftedness #neurotype #iq

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joseptew
joseptew :
It's also the lack of curiosity in others, and the lack of self awareness, that perplexes me.
2024-12-16 17:49:48
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hotornotdotcom
hotornotdotcom :
It’s isolating to have your mind reach places no one can meet you at, and living in that isolation is often incredibly humbling.
2024-12-16 17:03:55
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ayalshachar
איל :
Rapidly understanding something complex but being unable to articulate it effectively to someone else has been a theme this week but also always 🙃
2024-12-16 19:20:40
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murphyslawinaction
Murphy :
I constantly flip back & forth between knowing I'm technically a genius & being annoyed that no one listens to me & feeling like the dumbest person alive.
2024-12-17 19:04:25
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evilawngn0me
Evilawngn0me :
So, do you kind of mean like...the Dunning-Kruger effect? The more you learn the more aware you become of complexity and the vastness of what you don't know? So those who are gifted, feel small, because they can see outside the box. But the rest of us feel big, because our view only goes to the edge of that box? makes me think of the quote "the only wisdom is in knowing you know nothing." Socrates (I had to look up who said the quote lol)
2024-12-16 15:52:17
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kc5cqw
🎚️Damon_KC5CQW🫡🇺🇸🚀✌🏻🖖🏻 :
I always attributed this to ADHD and not my high IQ. Perhaps both of these go hand in hand as most of my peer brainiacs have ADHD. Giftedness is much more than IQ alone. I have some theories…
2024-12-16 19:57:33
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julesjulesbobules
JuliaGulia :
Former gifted program kid. 🙋🏼‍♀️IQ test I took to get in had me at 138. I am the loneliest person. It sucks so bad.
2024-12-16 20:00:52
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charybdis_cariddi
Mom :
It reminds me of the description of a 3 dimensional being looking at a 2 dimensional world - they don’t see what we see because they are trapped within their dimension.
2024-12-16 15:47:46
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teacherinreallife
Jaclyn :
I taught gifted kids, top 4%. In an environment w/ their peers, they flourish. They feel comfortable and have the freedom to be themselves.
2024-12-17 16:50:03
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grumpydad005
grumpydad005 :
Sometimes it seems like the person must be intentionally missing the point
2024-12-16 16:50:36
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londonbelow
Kiana :
You did a great job of explaining this. Like when people say "don't think too hard about it" when the alternative seems like no thought at all and the middle ground there is hard to find.
2024-12-16 16:50:01
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fluoridefrogs
FluorideFrogs :
Something similar can be said for the intuitive introvert. They see and experience the world very differently, often relying on intuition and a rich inner world. This leads to so much isolation
2024-12-17 15:58:24
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curlystachebiker
🤷 :
I was the gifted kid. I've brute forced my issues with intellect for a long time. I destroy myself for every mistake, I realize I have no group. no flag to wave so to say. and I hate acknowledging it.
2024-12-16 20:13:09
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tdtdogtraining
TDTdogtraining :
It's devastatingly lonely 🙁
2024-12-16 17:53:27
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penny.lynn31
user5913615252732 :
And trying to find a partner who you can talk to and explore ideas 😔 and whose brain works fast enough to keep up.
2024-12-17 21:30:21
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venusterrenus
Lisa Pizza Meatball :
I used to think that if I was gifted it should make it *easier* to connect with people🤡
2024-12-16 15:46:27
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goose.jail
Goose Jail :
I can't even properly explain what's going on in my head & how my brain makes connections. It's a combo of words, pictures, colors in 3D configurations that convey meaning chaining at light speed.
2024-12-17 16:48:58
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overwhelmedandtired
lauren k :
I learned from an early age that my intelligence is not always a blessing. Teachers yelled at me for not showing work when the work was in my head. I started writing sentences on my thought process..
2024-12-17 21:39:37
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mordododo
MORDO :
it's a very lonely existence
2024-12-16 19:26:16
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jmgreenwriter
🦆 :
I really think part of the problem is in the wor “gifted “
2024-12-18 05:55:48
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picklejuice_13
The Intolerable Picklejuice :
if you're gifted and you know it, you know it's humble not to show it
2024-12-17 13:22:47
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raisedbythetv89
𝔞𝔲𝔫𝔱𝔦𝔢 🐈‍⬛ :
the timeliness of this is actually insane
2024-12-18 06:38:29
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shanaleebanana
shanaleebanana :
Yes! Like the dunning Kruger effect in all aspects of life. I wasn’t able to see my own loneliness in this until I met my gifted partner, and I could see it in him, and thus myself. 🤯
2024-12-17 16:25:49
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danielleintime
Danielle In Time :
😳 🤯 Oooooh! The internal dissonance itself is the unit of measure. This video explained how to reconcile my internal world with my external experience.
2024-12-16 14:48:36
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