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Empathy is feeling someone else pain in your heart ❤️🩹
2024-12-16 18:44:44
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elliotbarnettofficial :
Empathy vs compassion is also confused…compassion is taking action on the empathetic understanding you’ve achieved through curiosity
2024-12-16 22:56:41
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Chrissy T :
I always thought sympathy is “I am sorry you are going through that” vs. Empathy: “I understand because I’ve gone thru a similar situation”. Perceived vs. Lived experience.
2024-12-17 00:17:58
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M :
For me, it's always been the ability to put myself in the shoes of another person. To see and feel things from their perspective and not my own. I've always had it, not sure how you learn it.
2024-12-16 23:04:33
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dvl :
"I understand" isn't empathy, but I prefer guessing where they are coming from "are u feeling x because you want y?" showing u care vs putting the burden of "where are u coming from" on them. WDYT?
2025-01-16 02:44:42
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redeeminglove :
yes
2025-05-31 13:58:53
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laurenhale1223 :
Stuart Albion
2025-01-21 15:12:23
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Nicolle Raleigh Realtor :
In my opinion, empathy is trying to put yourself in someone else’s shoes. You might not 100% understand.
2024-12-18 15:58:24
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miss function :
empathy isn't putting yourself in someone else's shoes it's understanding why that person is in the shoes, who they are and why they're there
2024-12-25 17:19:23
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Kath146 :
It’s sadly lacking these days.
2024-12-16 23:11:22
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Niki 🇬🇧 :
empathy is understanding another's situation emotionally
2025-02-10 07:56:37
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Tsyukuyomix17 :
This is what I did
2025-02-05 23:09:51
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justadawgu :
People will just try and fix the problem, even before understanding why you feel that way
2024-12-18 04:25:26
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Meg Sullivan :
This is SO important
2024-12-17 20:49:52
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Girlythings311 :
I think it’s deeper than just understanding. I think it involves actually feeling the emotions and having a deep and full understanding of the other persons experience.
2024-12-17 21:48:13
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Fraya Mortensen :
That’s compassion. The understanding is the cognitive empathy. Then we have emotional empathy- the genuine feeling. Compassion is the action behind the empathy ❤️
2024-12-17 02:09:44
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ellaraystyle :
empathy is not about you but the other. how much you are able to SEE, feel and understand them on all levels, not to give your advice but to give them a safe space to express themselves fully. 🌺
2024-12-19 10:09:39
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Forlaughsnotfollows :
Capitalism removes empathy from people and that needs to be rectified
2024-12-22 22:35:38
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user6968178958879 :
Empathy is a gift and a curse for me.
yes you get to understand&feel other ppl perspective&emotions but all the time. Empaths struggle to protect their energy.
2024-12-18 04:39:28
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Isabel McArthur :
I’ve been shocked that in a world where mental health is much more pursued we’re in more of an empathy crisis than ever
2024-12-16 20:17:08
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gracendignity :
People confuse sympathy with empathy all the time. People who are truly empathetic, not only understand the other person’s perspective and experience, they often feel it themselves.
2024-12-17 21:54:10
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Lieksels :
Empathy is accessing all information, context and feelings needed to truly feel along with their pain as theirs, not your own
2024-12-23 05:54:20
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Frannys Bartending :
Thank you for this❤️
2024-12-16 17:08:53
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