@coach.ryan0: What avoidants say vs what they really mean (especially dismissive avoidants and fearful avoidants that lean heavily dismissive) #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #insecureattachment #attachmentstyle #emotionallyunavailaible #breakup #discard #discarded #divorce #heartbroken #blindsided #Relationship #dating #situationship #relationshipcoach #attachmentwounds
When anxious gets hurt enough, they’ll turn into avoidants.
2024-12-17 06:08:00
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Chinchillaswag :
Dismissive avoidants just seem like narcissism without malice or manipulation.
2024-12-17 03:17:12
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j.angelique_ :
May this love never ever find me again 🫶🏽
2024-12-18 18:02:48
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abboogie :
it hurts so bad because you just wanna love them and help them heal & live a great life with them but they push you away and/or treat you horribly.
2024-12-18 23:39:50
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🧛🏻♀️ :
don’t people understand that nobody wants to be avoidant. people have went through things to become this way. it’s hard dealing with it too.
2025-01-24 15:22:47
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Noelle :
There is hope y’all. My man is an avoidant and I promise there’s hope
2025-01-22 08:53:49
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FOJC :
First you are everything. You are the perfect woman. They are emotional avaiable. They put you on a pedestal. Next thing sabotage The relationship. And ghost you. Your healthy love makes them anxious.
2024-12-18 07:38:54
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LSarah954 :
Please somebody send this to him for me
2024-12-17 11:34:23
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Lindsay Ruth :
You’ve done it again!!! You’ve spelled out this type of person with such precision.
2024-12-16 22:03:09
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Ariana :
Thank you for this. Currently going through it now and I just want to tell him I hear him and will love him through it
2024-12-16 22:26:54
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CrimePalette :
The anxious/avoidant dynamic is incredibly painful. 💔 I encourage all of us to embark on a journey of healing. Wherever that takes us in the end (with or without them) we’re gonna be okay if we heal.
2024-12-17 04:12:49
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Jamie :
My ex said all of these. It was exhausting bc all I wanted to do was love him.
2024-12-17 23:38:28
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Liv Greeley :
Told me I was the best person he's ever been with but I'm not the one. We were talking about buying a house 🙃
2024-12-17 01:57:41
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Mariah Serna-Velasco :
He legit said he can’t give me what I need, and he was so loving and compassionate at first and it wasn’t so easy for him to leave , after taking me ring shopping too..
2024-12-18 04:18:23
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tatted_red_head_37 :
You literally just said verbatim what she said to me... every single scenario 🥺
2024-12-16 22:24:00
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Lesley :
But why don’t they try to change and grow?
2024-12-17 00:01:48
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Rachel Mallory :
I heard most of these and walked away two weeks ago. I miss him but I didn’t know where I stood and he couldn’t reassure me. I’m second guessing myself.
2024-12-17 06:43:21
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Elle :
I pray I never deal with this type of person again . It’s draining
2024-12-22 03:05:39
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AzizzleZazzle :
You honestly treated me better than any man/relationship I’ve ever been in
2024-12-17 00:57:24
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Rosaria :
What if they say they don’t know how the even feel about me anymore 👀
2025-01-03 18:15:50
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kylogizmo :
Run ladies, run
2024-12-17 20:48:15
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Axon_Terminal :
Happened to me this year. Just after I got out of a 4 year narsissitic relationship. Hurt. I didn’t handle the rejection the best but I did walk away…..again. 😢
2024-12-17 01:53:10
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Phoenix :
I'm an anxious who cares for an avoidant. It's hard, but he tries. I try. All you can do is give them patience and remind them you care and you're not going anywhere.
2024-12-18 02:53:49
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British Traveller :
Mine just made contact after 6 months of no contact
2024-12-16 22:58:39
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