I feel like every time I bring something up it just gets thrown back in my face and we end up just talking about everything I’ve done wrong instead.
2024-12-17 18:40:44
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Kell_casper :
Then they make you feel bad for them 🙃without taking any accountability
2024-12-17 20:09:15
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Lisa Weidert Christe :
YES, this is the main reason for us getting divorced.
2024-12-17 15:58:59
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rabby.patty :
Yup. And then it always gets twisted back on me. 🙄 sick of it
2024-12-17 23:17:24
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Anuhea :
yup. everything was a fight or me being a victim. he was emotionally immature and unintelligent.
2024-12-17 17:23:21
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Kristen :
Every time I would bring up my feelings I’d get “guess I’m the worst person ever” or “guess I’ll never do that ever again since it makes you so upset even though I did nothing wrong”
2024-12-17 23:38:21
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michshellyyyy :
Yup. And then they tell you that “you’re too sensitive”…. Always the same thing. No accountability and always YOURE TOO SENSITIVE
2024-12-17 18:27:43
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Hollie Carrender :
I kept telling him he was conditioning me to stop engaging in our marriage. and he was satisfied with that, until I disengaged all the way.
2024-12-17 21:12:24
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867-5309 :
Mine belittles mine because “he doesn’t understand why I feel the way I do” or wants me to factualize my feeling
2024-12-17 21:27:01
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handbound_press :
Every time I bring up my feelings, he gets upset and it becomes me comforting him rather than addressing my feelings and why I feel this way and then I have to apologize for even saying anything.
2024-12-18 12:11:02
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Lou :
It is SO difficult to have a healthy response to abhorrent behavior.
2025-01-18 14:43:34
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Anne Sweeney :
I feel like when I bring stuff up he just turns it around on me like it all my fault
2024-12-17 23:34:41
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Amanda :
Everytime I bring anything up calmly, they start yelling and tell me I'm wrong & don't make sense. Like how can I be wrong about MY feelings?
2025-01-13 20:23:11
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Rebecca Laster :
My ex would take everything I brought up as conflict, no matter how calm I said He didn’t yell so I didn’t realize it was abuse. He treated me like shit but I thought it was just him being “rational.”
2024-12-17 14:54:35
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katlyn✿ :
i tried to explain to him very gently and eloquently my feelings and try to help him understand my needs and he would freak out on me! then he wondered why i didnt feel safe w him
2024-12-17 23:21:53
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Nunya :
And when someone yells and you and makes you feel bad, this is not the love of your life. Trust me.
2024-12-18 16:23:09
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Amy Colwell | LoveYourLifeMore :
Yes!!!! 💯 Not allowed to have feelings because it’s perceived as I’m the problem that their actions hurt! So frustrating!
2024-12-17 20:14:57
25
Laura 🇨🇦 :
having to pick and choose what I was going to bring up very carefully because I knew there would be backlash later about it, and having to decide what was worth that backlash
2024-12-17 23:34:23
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penguin3765 :
My husband has autism and RSD. He blows up at me for communicating my feelings because he takes me voicing a complaint as an attack on him and then I feel ablist.
2024-12-18 03:29:32
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🌸 Jasmine :
“You trying to start an argument” 🙄 Walks out while talking, silent treatment until they feel like you forgot about it. That’s how unresolved issues happen and resentment. Got to leave. ✌🏾
2025-01-03 13:41:40
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jessicamia26x :
Even if they don’t understand it, you’re entitled to your feelings.
2024-12-25 00:27:09
3
sarahbishopxo :
This is the argument we always get in, I bring something up and I ask him to have a conversation now and not be defensive or dismissive. Still a work in progress but getting better
2024-12-17 23:20:51
4
lizwhateverok :
I get loud when I try to talk about my feelings and they invalidate them and give all of their opinions of how I’m wrong and I just break down because nothing I say is ever true to them
2024-12-19 03:52:25
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Rachel James Artistry :
“Feelings are not facts” 🥺
2025-01-23 10:17:05
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MMybell :
he would just ignore it and ghost me for 2 days then come back like nothing happened
2024-12-20 03:56:42
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