itsharrietshearsmith
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Lee :
It's easier to come across as a better person when you no longer have the power to be a bad person.
2024-12-18 12:43:54
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💙💗quirky_wife_busy_life💙💗 :
We had one who was an awful old man when he was younger but is lovely now, but the abuse has been done and the kids have the right to walk away
2024-12-18 12:51:56
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Pinsamma morsan :
I worked in home care a d had the sweetest old lady and her son was stunned that w liked her so much bc seh was a nightmare not just to him but to a lot of people
2024-12-22 21:22:40
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Mrs12thManGamer :
I've been a carer for 16 years, when I first started I had this attitude until one woman said to me "you DO NOT know my Mum better than I do"...and she was right.
2024-12-20 11:36:11
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Ellie Williams :
going no contact with my mam was the best thing I've ever done. it wasn't an easy decision and was a hard 1. going no contact is the last option
2024-12-18 21:40:01
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Floof_a_Boop_a_Snoot :
Mic drop!
2024-12-18 12:30:16
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user1146494182305 :
Sometimes, there's a reason why an older person is in a care home and doesn't have family who (are willing to provide) care.
2024-12-19 16:42:55
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PennyDaPooh :
My mother mellowed with age. I'm the only child of three that didn't go no contact. I sure do understand it though.
2024-12-20 00:04:14
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Missie :
this! 🙌🏽
2024-12-18 21:08:43
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TheBookOfSam :
You should look up that hospice nurse who talks about patients requesting to talk to relatives who are no contact & she is very mindful of the estranged relatives. You remind me of her 💜
2024-12-19 21:54:29
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hm. not. today. :
My mother puts on a really good "frail old lady". People actually fall for it and she gets them to harass her kids because how could we? They suddenly disappear after 6mths. Wonder why 😂
2024-12-18 14:53:37
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Asees Hera :
Families are complicated & as healthcare professionals it’s NOT our job role to judge them. At the end of the day we are supposed to be non discriminating. If a rapist comes in our care or a murderer . As healthcare professional we still need to provide them care. So we have no right to judge.
2024-12-18 13:33:03
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The Lost Lynore 🐦⬛ :
Many parents put on a facade for others
2024-12-18 13:30:28
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Cindy Petri472 :
it's easy to judge,we are all human and make mistakes. I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOU IN A FEW YEARS WHEN YOU HAVE ACTUAL LIVED FOR AWHILE. DO YOU HAVE A JOB?? OR IS SOMEONE ELSE PAYING YOUR BILLS? GET
2024-12-18 14:04:25
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Queen Devena :
Kids are not materialistic or narcissistic, they are being brought up like that. My husband was brought up to be very selfish, how to manipulate and everything was about the money. I don't blame him,
2024-12-20 09:55:12
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Sara Wolfe :
My 88 yo loves to tell strangers how awful her children are . Only one visits regularly, I’m no contact, 2 live abroad and visit 2/4 times a year. She fails to tell anyone how horrible she has been .
2024-12-19 10:40:29
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latherna1334 :
I always think about my great grandad when this comes up, he was horrible by all accounts but when he went into a care home they told him he was going on holiday so he had to be on best behaviour.
2024-12-21 10:23:24
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YerAuntyKat64 :
A lot of toxic parents will be putting on a show in front of others too.
2024-12-18 16:50:57
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Malia :
I thank god everyday that my therapist encouraged me to go no contact with my mom.
2024-12-18 17:28:52
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withlovecc❤️🔥🙏❤️🔥 :
takes a narc to raise a narc🤷♀️
2024-12-18 13:41:14
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Coco :
Some parents are great at masking where even the abused children can’t even believe their own reality because the abuse exists and then they are love bombed. Then child is not believed.
2024-12-18 22:08:58
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Ash :
Also let’s not forget they never take accountability or admit to what they’ve done.. these staff are hearing their side of the story only which is always the “victim” mentality in my experience.
2024-12-20 08:26:02
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curly :
My mother is worse at 81 and so entitled. She is really not bothered whether attention is negative or positive. I am no contact
2024-12-18 17:22:49
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user583138003821 :
you have an idea of who they are in front of others!!!
2024-12-20 08:29:19
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lauramarkvaldien :
Who made those kids narcissistic then?
2024-12-20 03:27:36
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