@johndelony: Your marriage doesn’t have to be this way. I know because my wife and I had the hard conversation. We came together and we decided, if we’re going to stay married, everything has to change. And it took commitment. It took work. It took time. But our marriage changed for the better. And yours can too. My Money & Marriage Getaway event is happening over Valentine’s Day weekend 2025 and I hope you and your partner will join me - Hit the link in my bio to get your tickets now! See y’all there, Delony #drjohndelonyshow #marriageadvice #marriage #marriagetips #relationshipadvice #liveevent #events
My husband and I had same convo when our youngest daughter was around 3 or 4. She is now 25. You gotta both be willing to make the changes needed. We were both willing.
2024-12-19 15:12:29
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AustinOwl52 :
Hubs and I had this conversation 20 years ago. We both did the work, had therapists and a marriage counselor, and rebuilt ourselves. Been married 30 years and so much in love we surprise ourselves.
2024-12-19 18:58:29
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Ziggy marmite :
Nothing changes, if nothing changes
2024-12-19 14:56:24
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Macmom2 :
Not so with dismissive avoidants unfortunately 😞
2024-12-21 02:34:53
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chrisbian7 :
had this convo with my wife. she agreed. then went and did the same thing, and I'm now the bad guy for sticking up for that boundary. currently separated
it takes 2 people
2024-12-19 16:41:05
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Beverley 📚 :
Tried this and he just sits and says nothing
2024-12-22 12:01:22
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Bella Ella :
What if we have this conversation ever few years? When is it enough?
2024-12-20 02:21:38
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Klearose :
My ex and I were on the same page until my youngest was in school full time. I don’t think it’s possible to have no changes as needs change.
2024-12-19 15:43:14
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Alice :
My husband & I did this...then divorced after 22 years. 1 1/2 years later, we got back together. Things are so much better. It took us losing each other to realize what we had & needed.
2024-12-20 00:16:40
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MegWeb00 :
Wow does this hit home
2024-12-19 16:24:40
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Anhellah :
What if one wants it and the other doesn't?
2024-12-19 15:05:09
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APFAB1 :
this is where we are at now
2024-12-19 16:01:33
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SnookOnTheFly :
My wife always said we tried everything, but I was there and know we didn’t. What I learned is that she meant she tried everything she was willing to try.
2024-12-20 10:57:45
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FionaLB :
We had the same convo and made same agreement. My husband then spent months setting up a secret house for himself. I’ve never been happier
2024-12-19 22:51:46
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Jess Lakas :
Thank you I need these words… idk how I’m going to start to conversation…
2024-12-19 19:10:49
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ShelleyBean :
Rocking the Social D shirt. Love it 😎
2024-12-19 15:05:31
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Cee Dubs :
After 26 years together, we had this exact same conversation 2 yrs ago. We're still together and better than ever. Everything changed including the way we communicate. That was huge.
2025-01-01 17:43:24
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All Things Investing :
I said I was all in and my wife didn't know what that meant and then she decided she didn't want to be married to me anymore. It takes 2 to make it work.
2024-12-20 01:24:30
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bb1975 :
what was the reason it was "over"?
2024-12-21 21:13:02
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kyla.miller7 :
Thank you i needed this
2024-12-20 01:22:05
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cruze505 :
Link tree won’t open. Info plz.
2024-12-19 22:12:02
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Debra Hartwick :
My husband and I set up rules of engagement early on. Both have a parent that is extraordinarily angry at the world and it spills over into how they treat people.
2024-12-19 19:57:40
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Hollee Bradshaw :
I love watching all your videos You're such a good inspiration
2024-12-19 17:22:11
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Anntheregoes2020 :
We had a similar conversation with a marriage counselor. Do you love him? Yes. Do you love her? Yes. It was life-changing. 💕❤️🩹💕
2024-12-22 15:40:55
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The Deb :
👍👍👍
2024-12-21 21:28:28
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