Dr. Nicole LePera
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Thursday 19 December 2024 20:17:09 GMT
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neptunian :
will u make one for disorganized attachment style?
2024-12-19 20:33:06
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lexi :
As someone who is avoidant, reading these comments is so disheartening. It makes me feel like I don’t deserve love and friendship, or even deserve to live around others. We’re not avoidant maliciously
2024-12-23 00:17:06
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cmeadeart :
Is it possible to save several attachment styles.
2025-01-03 15:32:05
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Sean :
The avoidant hates being told that they are avoidant.
2024-12-19 20:39:10
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Jassi Renae :
why is the avoidant attachment so criticized but not anxious attachment? I'm sorry but both are equally unhealthy. The goal should be to be a secure attachment.
2024-12-29 04:01:56
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Anna Kate Arnold :
Ppl in comments - stop judging people by their attachment style and start judging by their desire to heal
2025-01-25 02:05:42
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Kate W :
Everyone hates on the avoidant, but it’s a trauma response, it’s hard to manage
2024-12-21 11:17:10
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utta butter :
No but why am I crying. Why don’t people get this? We have a bad rep
2024-12-19 20:19:28
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kesl3211 :
My husband is avoidant. I feel like we don’t have an honest relationship bc he can never tell me what’s wrong and if I tell him what’s bothering me he goes into a shame spiral. It’s frustrating
2024-12-21 19:08:25
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TRON🎣🇺🇸💯 :
Ignoring someone for weeks you save you love is crazy work especially around Christmas time
2024-12-20 03:56:25
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JaneDoe :
I'm avoidant but I'm very self aware. I'm working on communicating and have made immense progress but it is VERY VERY hard! but that's because I don't like hurting the people I love 😭
2025-01-01 16:57:40
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Isabel Leigh :
As an anxious attachment person, this kind of person was my nightmare 😩
2024-12-19 21:53:29
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wisdomgoestik :
it's a constant battle, people don't try to understand, only judge and criticise
2024-12-19 21:20:58
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Jasmine P. Green :
And the gag is —avoidants love the deepest but unfortunately if not given a safe space, it will not actualize.
2025-01-09 16:34:20
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Pixy :
I'm avoidant. After an argument i back off not to dismiss the other's feelings, but to cool off to communicate with a clear head cuz I don't want to lash out & hurt the other.
2024-12-20 01:58:34
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DrSchollsGirlie :
no cause i was left to my own devices most of my childhood. currently live alone and i only feel myself when i’m at home
2024-12-20 05:49:12
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Stefanie Shahvar :
I struggle with what to actually DO though. Aside from just getting/keeping them out of your life. It feels like no one can actually help them out of this cycle when it reinforces itself.
2024-12-20 22:57:15
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Nia :
Hyper sensitive to criticism is so real😭😭😭
2024-12-20 01:47:27
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millesbian.falcon :
intense emotions are chasing me but I am faster (jk, I'm dissociating in place 🫠)
2024-12-19 21:51:31
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karinafleming139 :
wow this feels soo real...that's why I can't be close to anyone
2024-12-19 20:22:28
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tk011188 :
I was secure and started dating an avoidant. Slowly it made me become anxious and then Iworked hard back to secure. I had compassion for him. He didn’t appreciate it and didn’t work on himself at all.
2024-12-25 02:24:06
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For Women Who Hold Everything :
I think avoidants get a bad rap because people assume they are a safe space and don’t understand why someone would want to run away or stay away from them.
2024-12-20 01:42:04
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user7985015238193 :
i am extremely avoidant... i run away.. why am i so weak... maladaptive daydreaming is where i hide.. i cried alot as a child, alone in room, in basement to
2024-12-20 01:50:50
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V :
"I feel like all of my flaws are on display" fr 😭 still hoping to find someone I feel comfortable with
2025-01-05 04:58:38
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Val :
Didn't matter how many times I complemented him, or explained how his words and actions affected Me or his kids. Tried multiple ways to connect on his level. But all he heard was his internal voice
2024-12-20 23:07:20
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