@a_purple_phase: This was bad. This was actually the worst thing I’ve come across with mom in this nursing home. It was neglect. Pure and simple. It is hard to share but it needs to be seen. I know many of you have been upset in the past. I have been too. But with the staff, I try to be fair and understand. I try to remember the end goal and to also see it from a real life perspective. BUT This was too far. It was addressed this day and thankfully, I had our first care plan meeting already scheduled and was meeting with Hospice. This situation (as well as the next visit) I was able to share at the care plan meeting as examples of blatant neglect. If I hadn’t gotten that meeting and/or hospice. I don’t know what we’d be doing right now. We are stuck tbh. Neither dad nor myself are able to care for mom at home. I know many of you will say to take her home. It isn’t possible at all. I hate that it isn’t possible but the fact still remains. #mylittlemomma #memorycare #nursinghome #dementia #ElderlyCare #strokesurvivor #understandinghospice #mothersoftiktok #mothersanddaughters #declining #dementiaupsanddowns #CaregiverTips #dementiaabuse #elderabuse #elderneglect #alzheimerscare #CapCut

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rinthecat4
rinthecat4 :
Sorry what exactly is the neglect in this video?
2026-09-04 04:38:38
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wynn8404
Edwin :
What was the abuse? Because she was laying side ways? Seriously asking because I don’t see anything
2025-06-17 06:48:11
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nenapolitica
Nenapolitica :
Shes pretending to be the good daughter and she has her in a nursing home😂😂
2025-08-30 18:53:33
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kellyv662
kellyv662 :
Families have such unrealistic expectations of these places they have no staff. Visit often help out.
2025-01-02 23:50:55
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softlymeagan
Softly,Meagan🎀 :
I’m sure she was attempting to climb out of bed, putting the table under and the bed in lowest position was a restraint to keep her in bed
2026-10-09 01:00:40
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acarter929
Cartiluvr929 :
They probably repositioned her numerous times throughout the day already… she most likely keeps sliding like that on her own, not an excuse to leave her like that but I’m sure the next time someone went into the room they wouldn’t leave her like that
2026-07-15 00:46:52
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jsuearagon770
jsuearagon :
having the table like that is a form of restraint
2024-12-20 15:28:51
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rn4way2long
Cybil :
The general public has no idea how long term care works and it shows.
2024-12-24 21:37:33
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duffersmom
kells :
you guys literally have no idea how difficult it is to take care of a dementia patient most nursing homes will give one aid 12 to 14 patients at one time and all of them are confused / combative/ some type of behavioral issues. we are not miracle workers the state needs to allow us to have more staff
2025-09-30 05:06:13
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gingizzle_s
Gingizzle_sbullys :
Take your mom home and take care of her.
2025-03-02 01:28:05
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ontgirl
AuntGoogle :
That's not neglect. Patients position themselves that way with dementia all of the time. I've seen neglect, and toue mom is doing fantastic ❤️
2024-12-21 21:59:17
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sunnydaytoo
Sunny Day :
That fact she says she thinks they are mad. Get cameras in that room
2024-12-20 17:28:18
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iambellemorgan
iambellemorgan 🇺🇲 :
Abuse is a reach viewing this clip.
2025-06-05 08:33:21
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user6586178358266
jackspratjackson :
1 nurse and 3 CNA to 40 residents. Mind you most of these residents are total care I.e. you have to feed them and do everything for them. The expectations on staff are unrealistic.
2025-03-09 13:25:01
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lindag656
lindag656 :
none of the people making comments worked in a missing home. Staff do the best they can. Family needs to help when able. Some tasks are impossible to accomplish but we keep trying.
2024-12-21 03:01:39
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hey_shell
Meachelle :
Take mom home to care for her like she cared for you
2025-07-31 23:51:23
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grammymac104
Elizabeth Mack :
Please take her home with you if you are upset.
2025-01-07 19:09:11
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sunshinestateofmind0924
MissinMiami :
Get her out and take her home,it’s amazing moms can take care of 5 or more kids but none of the kids can take care of mom
2026-07-24 23:30:58
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lindast6
user2063174227429 :
Take her home with you! What are you doing?????
2024-12-20 18:47:35
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missmadammarie
missmadammarie :
Beds are lowered in case of a fall.
2024-12-20 19:44:18
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barbienurse55
user4600251782010 :
I worked in a long term care home for a short period of time, they are all understaffed, overworked and it’s unfortunate because most people need 24/7 care. She looked so happy to see you
2024-12-20 20:52:50
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gb9021264
G Baby :
Better take her home with you
2024-12-21 02:15:09
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catherinereannay2
Catherine Reannay :
Think about this…. If YOU CANT take care of them and it’s only you with one person. Imagine what it’s like for one of us for 20! It’s not our fault we are not supplied with enough staff to properly care for others. Our system is designed to fail. Do I believe we have bad medical employees, yes. But that starts at the top of the chain not the bottom. Start with administration and ask them to supply us with more hands and it actually be followed through. Also it’s administration that hired these people. While yes back employees should be held accountable maybe these office folks should be too.
2025-08-25 22:58:21
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ro6530
Ro :
If it was neglect, which it isn’t, why leave her there?
2025-08-26 05:08:54
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