Jola Jovani
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Friday 20 December 2024 22:47:24 GMT
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nah :
neutral language as a response to something im excited about makes me feel like they don't care about my interests. like be excited FOR MEEEEEE
2024-12-21 19:45:57
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beep :
complete neutrality also puts all the emotional labor onto the other person
2024-12-22 00:37:02
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Faith :
I wish I could send this to my ex
2025-02-23 05:55:12
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rachaelkl :
This is actually such a helpful shift in perspective, thank you!
2024-12-21 14:29:35
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oldluckyduck :
But I'm neutral. I have no pros or cons other than the ever present con of leaving my house, but that's a given. If I have a bunch of pros my response would be more enthusiastic. If I have a bunch of cons I would get more clarification on the situation before agreeing to be involved.
2024-12-21 15:36:57
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Meowriah :
I ask people to say “I don’t have a preference” over “I don’t care”
2024-12-21 18:37:19
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juicefan92 :
I’m tired of being the only source of energy
2024-12-24 13:41:54
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Lexi 🍄 :
What if you feel neutral about it?
2025-01-06 16:17:01
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Salome :
This is really helpful. What I need is information, I’m not trying to change how you feel
2024-12-21 18:29:12
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Gina :
my tone sometimes used to dampen the mood. now I'm better at saying. ✨yes definitely ✨ I'm just thinking about timing/traffic/crowd or whatever my concern is
2024-12-21 15:50:44
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eveexoticabooks :
“I had a late lunch is not a response to what do you want for dinner especially when there is a whole family to consider.
2024-12-21 19:40:20
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fallonmakesamvs :
This applies to friends as well.
2024-12-21 16:09:46
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Ilix 🇨🇦 :
I'm really bad with this. I had my friends over and I gave suggestions on things we could do that night. They barely reacted to any of it, just said yeah that's fine. So I didn't book anything. 😅
2024-12-23 15:23:41
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heymsmabs :
I hate SURE like don’t bother than
2024-12-22 00:58:57
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Casey :
oh! can you post this on Instagram? my partner watches reels when I send them and this articulate what I'm trying to explain to him!
2024-12-21 15:58:04
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Myl :
I too need to remember this I fear
2024-12-21 00:06:47
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pmannnrl5d7 :
it's easier to be noncommittal when I don't have a strong opinion and the alternative is to try and guess what I'm supposed to be excited about/which is the right answer.
2024-12-21 22:24:28
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Curiouser&Curiouser :
Tone matters. A resounding “Sure!” in comparison to a “..sure” changes everything.
2024-12-23 09:47:02
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user3138445710444 :
My boyfriend has mastered this and I love that he is more of a steady and calm person emotionally. But he communicates so well with how he is feeling, I don't feel like he isn't participating
2024-12-21 20:35:12
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chaoticgremlin :
i always say to my wife "I need a yes, no, or an explanation, or I will make the decision"
2024-12-21 23:18:26
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literally nobody :
I dont know how to feel about this. On one hand its a helpful perspective, but on the other hand sometimes I don't want to wiegh the pros and cons.. i just wanna vibe
2024-12-22 03:03:30
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Millennialial :
Sure is the four-letter word of our house. Like, nevermind then.
2024-12-21 16:44:45
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BZ :
Since you can’t see my part 2 here it is. if you’re neutral about something and you say, I could go or I could stay. your partner has to make a decision for you therefore it’s emotional labor.
2024-12-23 18:11:22
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trd890813 :
I answer like that when I'm lost/stuck in my head. So when my partner asks to do something or gives suggestions I tell him "sure, I may not sound enthusiastic because I'm feeling this stuck version of
2025-01-04 00:44:05
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